Women also often feel no threat of sexual violence. Are they mistaken?

No. They're lucky.

Do you want them to live in constant fear?

No. That's silly.

If men are sexually harassed, then they are not in control, obviously.

Men are rarely sexually harassed, and almost never are in danger of being sexually assaulted. Just because men are occasionally harassed doesn't mean they don't have power over women in public spaces.

Honestly have you never spent any time studying gender in an academic setting? There is decades of sociological and psychological research proving this. Are you just here to prove that men should be allowed to harass women? What is your point here?