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Introduction /r/NoFap is a venue for Redditors, male or female, to openly discuss the many tangible benefits of NOT masturbating for a period of time. Whether your goal is to casually participate in a NoFap week or monthly challenge as a test of self control, or if fapping has become an addictive problem in your life and you want to quit for a longer period of time, you will find a home and friends here.

For new visitors please view the Your Brain On Porn presentation for a semi-scientific look at why we are quitting; however, NoFappers choose to quit for a variety of different reasons.

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You will treat other Fapstronauts with respect. No name calling, no insults, and no degrading comments for either male or females. In addition to this, no posting pornographic images, links, or text. Anyone who disregards these rules may find themselves promptly banned.

Any thread stating "For every up vote I will do X" or any thread referencing a NSFW post on reddit will be removed. All details, descriptions, stories, experiences, etc about your sex life should be censored via NSFW text as described below. This is important because even small amounts of arousing text may cause some fapstronauts distress.

NSFW Text Mark any NSFW text with the following code:

[text I want to hide](/nsfw)

EXAMPLE: text I want to hide

NoFap Jargon Explained

Fapping: The male act of masturbation

Schlicking: The female act of masturbation

Edging: Masturbating without orgasm

Fapstronaut: A member of r/NoFap

NSFW: Not Safe For Work

NSFL: Not Safe For LIFE

PMO: Porn/Masturbation/Orgasm

PVO: Porn/Vibrator/Orgasm

ED: Erectile dysfunction

PE: Premature ejaculation

PIV: Penis in Vagina

YMMV: Your Mileage May Vary

Blue Petal: Female equivalent of blue balls

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Fapstronauts partake in the ultimate challenge at their own risk and understand that NoFap is largely pseudoscience with very little formal research available on the subject. NoFap is NOT a panacea and individual results will vary. Please do not look to fapstinence to cure all your social and physical ills. If you have other problems that have nothing to do with your sexual habits, they're still going to be there when you're done with a NoFap challenge. NoFap is NOT for everyone. If you have a physical or mental health concern, talk to a medical professional before partaking in a NoFap challenge. If masturbation or sex is a debilitating addiction for you please contact a medical professional and/or attend SAA meetings as these are probably preferable to an internet-based solution. If you are feeling depressed and/or are having suicidal thoughts, seek help immediately. Check out r/SuicideWatch or contact a hotline.

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[–]piar37 days 6 points7 points ago

Well put! In all seriousness, though, I think that if posting about your experiences and hardships would help you that you should do it. Many noFappers are surrounded by a culture that sexualizes everything it can already. Learning to filter out "boredom horniness" from real horniness is a critical part of the journey, and I know I learned to by moderately exposing myself to such posts and controlling myself.

[–]ScarletF7 days[S] 1 point2 points ago

Thanks for the support! I did write it all out in all it's horrifying detail for myself, but I never posted it because I couldn't make it sound non-pornographic. It helped me to write it out though because I could look at when I was done and go "Dang sister, you got a problem."

[–]e_totheipiplus_151 days 1 point2 points ago

It might be kind of tedious, but one thing you might try is using the nsfw text tag to block out the potentially triggering material. If you want to make it one step more difficult for would-be viewers to accidentally read text they didn't want to, rot13 is great for that. Personally, I think you should post it. As you know, there are women on here looking for support too, but I'd imagine it's difficult to find it when they feel like they have to censor themselves for the sake of teh poor menz.

[–]mistersplice 0 points1 point ago

I've considered writing out my recollections as well.

[–]DrOctagon21 days 15 points16 points ago

Oh Firefly how I miss you so :(

[–]Kredns39 days 1 point2 points ago

I wish they could bring it back like Netflix is doing with Arrested Development. Maybe if AD does well...

[–]ScarletF7 days[S] 9 points10 points ago

Eh, I love Firefly and all, but it seems like it might be too late to bring back. The actors all have other gigs now it wouldn't be the same as before, not with some characters being gone. Plus the expectations would be through the roof and no show could meet them.

[–]willdone5 days 4 points5 points ago

ALERT SPOILER: Also Wash is dead.

[–]DrOctagon21 days 3 points4 points ago

Spoiler alert dude :)

[–]willdone5 days 2 points3 points ago

Is it really a spoiler when the movie came out 7 years ago?

[–]Username49119 days 2 points3 points ago

YES. I didn't watch the show, let alone the movie, until a year ago. Spoilertag that, please. For the children.

[–]Logon-q151 days 4 points5 points ago

ehh, they did Serinity?

AD is just back as a movie if i am not mistaken

[–]Kredns39 days 1 point2 points ago

No it's a full season (10 episodes) on Netflix. There's been a lot of misinformation going around about a possible movie, but nothing has actually materialized on that front. They just started filming for season 4.

[–]iheartdolphins2882 4 points5 points ago

You posted Nathan Fillion to NoFap? Watch as all the members fail today.

All of them.

[–]ScarletF7 days[S] 4 points5 points ago

Dang, do you see my problem?

[–]iheartdolphins2882 0 points1 point ago

I had the same problem when writing my own nofap post a few days ago. All those memories, and if you try to talk about them... I feel your pain, sister :(

[–]piar37 days 1 point2 points ago

Those pants are just so tight.

[–]DrOctagon21 days 0 points1 point ago

No lie... Man crush right there!

[–]blouog229 days 2 points3 points ago

This post made me giggle

[–]PVT__Parts66 days 1 point2 points ago

A+ for effort.

[–]20jcp25 days 1 point2 points ago

You feel like Nathan Fillion?

[–]ScarletF7 days[S] 2 points3 points ago

All the time. It's awesome.

[–]20jcp25 days 0 points1 point ago

Do you feel like him because you actually are him? wishful thinking

[–]ScarletF7 days[S] 2 points3 points ago

lol, sure, cuz Nathan Fillion would come to reddit to post about the troubles of being a porn addicted girl.

[–]Odimasira38 days 0 points1 point ago

Just put a [trigger warning] or [nsfw] on it and it'll be fine.

(Also, I'm sure the other female fapstronauts will thank you for not posting any screencaps from Dr. Horrible.)

[–]nof00136 days -1 points0 points ago

I would so love to ask you for details:p but my brain tells me not to:p:(

[–]ilovemyhand13 days 1 point2 points ago

Ha, you rock!

[–]holdmyheart105 days 0 points1 point ago

Really though.

[–]MrMasterBaiter9 days -3 points-2 points ago

Its porn, dont click on it

Edit: i mean that imgur link thats another comment. Stupid iphone...

[–]_charles_19 days -2 points-1 points ago

LOL XD

[–]fappalamadingdong 0 points1 point ago

You can PM me about your fapping experiences and I'll translate them into male terms and post them for you under a proxy account...

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[–]unrelatedsquirrel40 days 0 points1 point ago

want some ice to your negative karma?