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Introduction /r/NoFap is a venue for Redditors, male or female, to openly discuss the many tangible benefits of NOT masturbating for a period of time. Whether your goal is to casually participate in a NoFap week or monthly challenge as a test of self control, or if fapping has become an addictive problem in your life and you want to quit for a longer period of time, you will find a home and friends here.

For new visitors please view the Your Brain On Porn presentation for a semi-scientific look at why we are quitting; however, NoFappers choose to quit for a variety of different reasons.

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Basic Rules

You will treat other Fapstronauts with respect. No name calling, no insults, and no degrading comments for either male or females. In addition to this, no posting pornographic images, links, or text. Anyone who disregards these rules may find themselves promptly banned.

Any thread stating "For every up vote I will do X" or any thread referencing a NSFW post on reddit will be removed. All details, descriptions, stories, experiences, etc about your sex life should be censored via NSFW text as described below. This is important because even small amounts of arousing text may cause some fapstronauts distress.

NSFW Text Mark any NSFW text with the following code:

[text I want to hide](/nsfw)

EXAMPLE: text I want to hide

NoFap Jargon Explained

Fapping: The male act of masturbation

Schlicking: The female act of masturbation

Edging: Masturbating without orgasm

Fapstronaut: A member of r/NoFap

NSFW: Not Safe For Work

NSFL: Not Safe For LIFE

PMO: Porn/Masturbation/Orgasm

PVO: Porn/Vibrator/Orgasm

ED: Erectile dysfunction

PE: Premature ejaculation

PIV: Penis in Vagina

YMMV: Your Mileage May Vary

Blue Petal: Female equivalent of blue balls

Disclaimer

Fapstronauts partake in the ultimate challenge at their own risk and understand that NoFap is largely pseudoscience with very little formal research available on the subject. NoFap is NOT a panacea and individual results will vary. Please do not look to fapstinence to cure all your social and physical ills. If you have other problems that have nothing to do with your sexual habits, they're still going to be there when you're done with a NoFap challenge. NoFap is NOT for everyone. If you have a physical or mental health concern, talk to a medical professional before partaking in a NoFap challenge. If masturbation or sex is a debilitating addiction for you please contact a medical professional and/or attend SAA meetings as these are probably preferable to an internet-based solution. If you are feeling depressed and/or are having suicidal thoughts, seek help immediately. Check out r/SuicideWatch or contact a hotline.

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[–]1310723 days 17 points18 points ago

Damn straight. Reminds me of a news story a few months back: http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2012/feb/01/top-five-regrets-of-the-dying

  1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
  2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard.
  3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.
  4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
  5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

[–]azurleaf5 days 1 point2 points ago

Cue dramatic, inspiring music.

[–]Leafeur 6 points7 points ago

Charles is 78 years old and lives alone. All his life has been remote in a secluded area of the Carpacian mountain range. He's never been with a woman, and never attempted to touch himself. One day, he gets an itch in his crotch. However much he scratch, it won't cease. But he notices something. This feels good! Charles has discovered masturbation, and it's the best thing he's ever felt.

After a pipe of fine, smooth tobacco. All of a sudden and for no reason at all, a huge and pissed off bear breaks down his front door and proceed with clawing Charles up. "Oh how I wish I'd spent more time masturbating"

[–]peaceandcarrots41 days[S] 1 point2 points ago

[–]gabriot6 days 6 points7 points ago

Ummm pretty sure there's plenty of people that would say this

[–]KabelGuy -1 points0 points ago

Really? Who?

[–]gabriot6 days 0 points1 point ago

People that enjoy masturbation (you know... most people)

[–]KabelGuy 1 point2 points ago

I think a lot of people recognize it as a waste of time.

Kind of like the way there aren't a lot of people who would say "I wish I had spent more time browsing Reddit."

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points ago

A better statement, "I wish I could go back and never look at porn again."

[–]mmaker75 days 1 point2 points ago

Beter Statement: "I wish I could quit porn earlier."

[–]Seventh_Planet4 days -1 points0 points ago

This statement is so ridiculous.

[–]drosengix -3 points-2 points ago

Best /r/NoFap post ever