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[–]studmuffffffin 134 points135 points ago

On the other hand, we should probably stop having gay pride parades too, since you're born with that.

[–]MadcowPSA 95 points96 points ago

I know the comment was a joke, but the difference is that being LGBTQ is basically an "invisible" property, and being open about it in a society that still largely shuns & condemns LGBTQ folk is an act of courage that warrants pride.

[–]ravenouscraving 30 points31 points ago

Another letter has been added? Damn. What is the Q for?

[–]360walkaway 12 points13 points ago

Questioning. It's not queer, since that can be used as a gay slur.

[–]Shinma 45 points46 points ago

"We're here, we're questioning, get used to it?"

[–]executex 20 points21 points ago

I wish everyone questioned everything.

[–]ReposterBot 5 points6 points ago

Why?

[–]FacsimilousSarcasm 1 point2 points ago

STOP QUESTIONING THINGS

[–]Darthcaboose 2 points3 points ago

Questionphobe!

[–]Lord_Purple_ 1 point2 points ago

Homophobe.

[–]TheActualAWdeV 2 points3 points ago

"I think we're here, we might be questioning, I'm not sure if you can get used to it!"

It's not very catchy.

[–]360walkaway 4 points5 points ago

Sure, why not?

[–]vegetarianBLTG 16 points17 points ago

Actually, many people in the GSM community (Gender and Sexual Minority...a more inclusive acronym that doesn't require additional letters) do identify as being "queer". "Queer" is a word that has been "taken back" by some in the community and is used as an umbrella term for non-heteronormative identities. You might also see the word pop up with the word gender as "genderqueer" meaning someone who falls outside of the gender binary.

[–]PseudoPhysicist 2 points3 points ago

Questioning, eh? looks around You guys questioning? It's okay to Question you know.

[–]gargravarrr 1 point2 points ago

I've always heard it was for "Queer/Questioning." I identify as queer, since I don't fit squarely into any other category. It doesn't bother me that some people use it as a slur; they do that with "gay" too.

[–]link090909 0 points1 point ago

well TIL... Q≠Queer, got it

[–]Super_King_ 0 points1 point ago

GSM is easier: Gender and Sexual Minorities

[–]TheActualAWdeV 0 points1 point ago

Yeah, but so can homosexual and lesbian. That argument don't make no sense. :P

And questioning doesn't really bring to mind the intended purpose.

[–]dotslashArt 0 points1 point ago

It can also stand for queer. Identifying as "queer" is something not as talked about, and sometimes it can fit in line with questioning. It's a label used to sort of categorize, "miscellaneous". I didn't understand it for a long time until I came to terms with my gender identity and started transitioning, and started to really get to know people all across the spectrum. So when I started coming out, people asked me, "So does that mean you're a straight woman? Are you bi, or...?" And honestly, I don't know what my orientation will be once I'm fully comfortable in my own skin, so I've just started answering "queer" to questions like that. I can't say I'm hetero, homo, or bisexual with certainty, but I'm also not questioning. I can only say I'm "sexual" which seems like an appropriate enough word to me, but that answer is a bit strange for people, so I just say "queer."

[–]VolatileChemical 1 point2 points ago

The hardcore versions go something like "LBGTTQQIAA*". I saw one iteration that went on for a whole paragraph.

[–]TheActualAWdeV 4 points5 points ago

But a "whole paragraph" doesn't mean anything.

Hi.

"Hi" up there was a whole paragraph too.

[–]mmb2ba 1 point2 points ago

[–]TheActualAWdeV 0 points1 point ago

Dun dun DUNNNN.

[–]mmj_gregory 1 point2 points ago

LGBTQIA. I for intersex and A for asexual.

[–]JasonWeb54 1 point2 points ago

I've seen it go as far as LGBTQUIY or something. I don't even know what the extra shit means.

[–]stsoperi 9 points10 points ago

The one that always sticks out in my mind is QUILTBAGs: queer undecided intersex lesbian trans bi asexual gay

In my opinion, LBGT+ is the most efficient. There are always new words and acronyms in the community, its really alienating.

[–]MNREDR 5 points6 points ago

I'm a lesbian myself, but I don't approve of the ridiculously long acronyms. Being inclusive is great and all, but rather unwieldy. I like GSM. Short and sweet. Also, I find it kind of weird 'undecided' is in there too. I get what they mean by it, but I can also see opponents using it to further the 'being gay is a choice' argument. "Oh so you haven't decided if you're straight or gay? Guess you're not really born that way after all."

[–]ShawnS26 1 point2 points ago

Second.

[–]konoir 2 points3 points ago

Using the term GSM (for Gender & Sexual Minorities) is the best way I've seen to be totally inclusive.

[–]Backstyck 3 points4 points ago

If we're slimming down the acronym and using a "+", then why stop there?

G+

[–]downtown_vancouver 4 points5 points ago

Because the lesbians feel un-represented (and rightly so) when homosexuality is equated with "gay". So before all this classification happened, it was PC to say "gay and lesbian". ITT that is why the L is at the front of the current acronym now (to give that term some prominance).

LGBT+ is probably as short as it can get, and IMHO works a-okay.

[–]bleh12342 1 point2 points ago

or maybe they are being called a quilt bag?

[–]noodlescb 0 points1 point ago

Much easier: NH, not heterosexual.

[–]Pickle_Inspecto 2 points3 points ago

Trans people can consider themselves heterosexual.

[–]PagingDoctorReason 1 point2 points ago

When I was in high school we had a speaker come in to give a talk about homophobia, and from what I remember he had one with around 15 letters in it.

[–]avias8 0 points1 point ago

Reddit sucks

[–]jabedude 4 points5 points ago

How brave!

[–]Benjips 1 point2 points ago

How brave!

[–]478nist 12 points13 points ago

Being Irish is kind of invisible too, and they were largely shunned and condemned for a long time too. 'no irish need apply' and all that.

[–]Crooooow 4 points5 points ago

That's why they get a parade, too

[–]OatmealPowerSalad 6 points7 points ago

Actually, while this discrimination was real, those 'no irish need apply' signs were never used, they were invented in historical fiction.

[–]478nist 2 points3 points ago

Apparently the signs up in windows were somewhat of a myth but it was a fairly common line to see in job advertisements in newspapers.

[–]OatmealPowerSalad 1 point2 points ago

Neat, thanks for clarifying.

[–]waythrowa 1 point2 points ago

Were?

[–]478nist 2 points3 points ago

The US and Great Britain mostly.

I thought you mispelled 'where', turns out I'm an idiot.

Yeh you still get it here and there, but travelling with an Irish passport is great!

[–]waythrowa 1 point2 points ago

Lol. Yea. I kid.

:)

[–]evolsteve 1 point2 points ago

I'm pretty sure that comment was not a joke, and nice counter to his argument.

[–]mmb2ba 0 points1 point ago

There are some who might argue that society still largely shuns and condemns racial and ethnic minorities, and that those people don't have the option of being "in the closet" about it.

[–]TimeKillerSP 0 points1 point ago

like irish used to be?

[–]PraiseBeToScience 8 points9 points ago

I can't wait for the day that people don't need to have pride in being LGBTQ because it's just a normal part of life.

As with all groups and activities that promote the humanity of people, the ultimate goal should eventually be extinction through lack of necessity.

[–]AarowSwift 5 points6 points ago

Yeah, gay pride is a bit different from what Carlin is addressing. It's fighting back against the social stigma of shame. Like the label of atheism wouldn't exist if there wasn't theism, gay pride wouldn't exist if there wasn't homophobia or associated bigotries.

[–]GayPerry_86 1 point2 points ago

its more like taking pride in coming out, since this IS an accomplishment because most societies remain fairly intolerant and disgusted by homosexuality...

[–]downtown_vancouver 0 points1 point ago

It has become an outdated adjective. Originally, IIRC, ppl were proud of, and expressing solidarity with, the Stonewall rioters. At the time, "Gay is Good" was the first popular slogan that had any positive connotations at all. It was called Gay Liberation, Gay Freedom, but some consensus-thinking organization thought that "Pride" expressed more: anti-shame, pro-achievement, anti-intolerance, pro-acceptance, etc.

But now we're stuck with the name; it'd take an amazing shift in thinking to re-name it anything else.

[–]Fig1024 0 points1 point ago

I think those are mostly done to counterbalance public shaming / dislike of gay people.

[–]gargravarrr 0 points1 point ago

I always thought gay pride was silly too, until I realized that pride is the only weapon we have against shame.

[–]sokratesz 0 points1 point ago

Agreed. And I'm 'pro' LGBT. Being proud of something you did not achieve is ridiculous.

[–]dusdus 0 points1 point ago

Honestly. I'm gay. And I tend to agree..

[–]jaf488 -5 points-4 points ago

You come out to your family, friends and loved ones, and then we can talk. Until then, shut your mouth.

[–]jon0448 2 points3 points ago

He did. Scroll through his past comments and he even linked his "come out" video.

You sound like a anti-gay hate monger. Take that shit elsewhere, bitch.

[–]jaf488 9 points10 points ago

Then he should understand that gay pride festivals aren't about being pride in being gay, its about being proud that we survived and made it through, when so many others haven't.

[–]Shinma 4 points5 points ago

That, and a good excuse to dress up like a screaming queen and ride a float shaped like a giant penis down the street. But hell, who hasn't wanted to do that at one point or another?

[–]Aedan 8 points9 points ago

I'm straight and that sounds fun as hell.

[–]h0p3less 3 points4 points ago

Straight guy here. Went to pride last weekend with lesbian friends- it's the most legal fun I've had during daylight on a Saturday in... probably ever.

[–]Shinma 0 points1 point ago

Gay bar on drag queen karaoke night. Absolute goddamn blast.

[–]h0p3less 0 points1 point ago

That's what I did for my 21st birthday. Which happens to be the day after Madonna's birthday. It was ridiculously fun.

[–]studmuffffffin 0 points1 point ago

What are you talking about? I'm not gay. Nor have I ever linked to any videos.

[–]rpi_cynic 0 points1 point ago

WOOSH.

[–]vadergeek 72 points73 points ago

Atheism! Somehow!

[–]sowhynot 5 points6 points ago

On his example, you not only was born Irish, you lived and learned there, absorbed their culture, liked it, didn't migrate to a different country, finally love it and now proud of it. Not much to do with genetics. Lot to do with your decisions. George Carlin may call himself fuking' genetic accident if he wants too.

[–]flippedoutcunt 1 point2 points ago

Or you just lived there.

[–]TheBucklessProphet 43 points44 points ago

And this has what to do with atheism?

[–]jabedude 6 points7 points ago

It's Very Brave!

[–]wisdumb 1 point2 points ago

So brave, in fact.

[–]wpiman 3 points4 points ago

George Carlin.... it is an indirect thing I suppose.

[–]theblob9 35 points36 points ago

I like how this has nothing to do with atheism.

[–]goodgollyyall 11 points12 points ago

Sort of easy for a white American man to say...

[–]this_is_my_favorite 2 points3 points ago

This was exactly my reading.

[–]controlmath 1 point2 points ago

Eh, I'll still rep the Germans when I'm playing Civ or watching sports on TV.

[–]petitmonstre 3 points4 points ago

George Carlin is my favorite philosopher.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points ago

These are all different feelings: pride for yourself, pride for your parents, pride for your children, pride for your country, etc. You can't really compare them.

[–]Chweeeet 3 points4 points ago

I'm proud to be Native American, my ancestors surviving the genocide brought upon by Europeans. Pretty cool. I mean there could have been a chance that I wouldn't have been born.

[–]this_is_my_favorite 4 points5 points ago

Many, many, many minority groups have to deal with assholes all day. Saying they are proud to be who they are is exactly the right response. I usually love George Carlin, but this entire quote is garbage. See: gay folk, Blacks, Asians, yes even Irish, Italian and if they go abroad, probably any Americans, too.

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[–]this_is_my_favorite 0 points1 point ago

Fair assessment.

[–]darngooddogs 3 points4 points ago

Race also includes your culture and the accomplishments of your ancestors, it is not just luck that you are who your are. You cannot be anyone else, the entire history of the universe in a way led to you, that long process is something to be proud to have been part of. Why are people afraid to be proud that they are part of something worth being part of. Unless your culture and your mother, father and so on down the line suck and have never done anything worth being remembered for.

[–]flippedoutcunt 0 points1 point ago

I'm a minority group within my own culture, where do I fall back on? These platforms are made to make you belittle people you know nothing about outside your glorified group. Feels like tribe-like behaviour to me.

[–]this_is_my_favorite 0 points1 point ago

So minorities are not allowed to exist? Your stance is inherently xenophobic.

[–]Alyeska2112 5 points6 points ago

If this is an actual Carlin quote, then it's one I disagree with. We don't have pride in labels like national or cultural identity simply because those identities exist (like his analogies of cancer and height), but because of the collective struggles, achievements and other experiences only those particular groups understand. I'm proud to be an American for some of the noble values I believe our country upholds (not always successfully). Other groups deserve to feel pride in knowing that their communities have overcome immense hardships, or succeeded or excelled in some way. I've always loved me some Carlin, but just because someone I otherwise adore says something doesn't mean I'm going to buy into it every time.

[–]madhatter2341 2 points3 points ago

Did anyone else read that in George Carlin's voice in their head?

[–]aboeve 2 points3 points ago

There are many people that go through hell to come to America and become a citizen. For them it is an accomplishment and they should be prideful. Americans should be proud that we live in a country where we have freedoms and more importantly, we have a voice to try and change things for the better.

[–]rjwax13 3 points4 points ago

I disagree. I'm Irish and proud. My ancestors came to America because they were starving. They experienced second-class citizenship, a lack of job opportunities, and living conditions that modern-day homeless people would consider unbearable. Despite this, they worked hard, educated themselves, and as a result, members of future generations, like myself, are living "the American dream." Don't get me wrong, I'm a big George Carlin fan, but when he tells me I can't be proud of my ancestry and Irish-American heritage, it makes me want to shove my family shillelagh up his dead asshole

[–]Shitbagsoldier 1 point2 points ago

Damn straight! My great grandfather started his own business and worked his way up from nothing. My grandfather earned his Bachelors and masters from Harvard and busted his ass off in the Air force and left as a colonel and then to upper management for a defense contractor. My father went to Notre Dame and busted his ass to give me every opportunity he could and I am eternally grateful for all of them. Irish pride in my mind is respecting the previous generations of Irishmen and women who over came diversity in America and cemented our place in America. Im proud of how hard the previous generations of Irish immigrants worked and everything they acheived to allow me the opportunities I have today. Its like the opening scenes of The Departed. "I don't want to be a product of my environment. I want my environment to be a product of me. Years ago we had the church. That was only a way of saying - we had each other. The Knights of Columbus were real head-breakers; true guineas. They took over their piece of the city. Twenty years after an Irishman couldn't get a fucking job, we had the presidency. May he rest in peace. That's what the niggers don't realize. If I got one thing against the black chappies, it's this - no one gives it to you. You have to take it." Frank Costello

[–]DamnyouPenelope 1 point2 points ago

So you're proud of your ancestors that moved to America and worked had so you could live the American dream.

That doesn't invalidate what he said.

[–]Elranzer 7 points8 points ago

Usually agree with George, but...

Being American sometimes is the result of hard work and achievement, not birth. Ask any legal immigrant.

[–]notjoea 6 points7 points ago

I'd say that's taking pride in achieving citizenship (earned) and escaping/overcoming someone's origins.

[–]unbraikable 0 points1 point ago

He's talking about being born American, obviously, and not the process of achieving citizenship.

[–]cebollas 10 points11 points ago

Even though george carlin is a good man i disagree strongly. It is important to have this type of pride because it supports cultural/community cohesion. Building strong communities is important to have functioning members of society who have strong morals. Morals don't always mean religion. People should care about their community and each other.

[–]notjoea 6 points7 points ago

That's a double-edged sword. It can lead to both positive and negative social norms. For example, the Nazis had lots of pride.

[–]this_is_my_favorite 3 points4 points ago

Nazis also had svelte hairdos and a sense of order. Guess those are evil, too!

[–]equalsme 0 points1 point ago

They were mostly white too, so that means all white people are Nazis, right?

[–]nugz85 0 points1 point ago

Nazi's had Aryan pride. Aryan pride to the extreme. The extreme pride in their Aryan heritage did contribute to their looking down on other non Aryans.

[–]notjoea 0 points1 point ago

Yep.

Okay, now I'll answer seriously even though it probably won't matter to you, although I hope you're open to a real discussion. Having pride has nothing to do with race. I'm simply saying that pride coupled with community can lead to exclusionary ideas. When one has pride it's often tied to notions of being 'better'. When individuals think they're better than everyone it's annoying. When communities do, it can have really terrible consequences.

[–]darngooddogs 2 points3 points ago

When communities do it, they become cleaner, the children are happier and families stay together. A conglomeration of humans is not a community at all, without pride.

[–]notjoea 1 point2 points ago

That's a fair point. Have an upvote. I suppose it's really only a problem (like most things) when taken to an extreme.

[–]unbraikable 3 points4 points ago

We should care about every human being regardless of nationality. We don't need nationalism to guide us morally.

[–]Coffee_plus_oldmovie 1 point2 points ago

I don't think that should be the basis of one's morals. Like Notjoea said, it's a double-edged sword.

[–]MrLostman 3 points4 points ago

Nationalism isn't really genetic, though. It's political and geographic. For example, you can become a US citizen even if you were born somewhere else. Our genes all trace back to the same origin, anyway. So ethnicity is really just our way of mapping genetic changes in the human race geographically. It's not really an actual thing, just a human defined concept.

But yes, I do agree; nationality and ethnicity are sort of irrelevant, aren't they?

[–]notjoea 1 point2 points ago

I wish that were true, and I think possible in some people's day-to-day lives. Unfortunately, those things are, and will continue to be, relevant as long as governing bodies engage in conflicts based on these concepts.

[–]nem0fazer 3 points4 points ago

Couldn't agree more. I'm proud of being Canadian. I jumped through two years of bureaucratic hoops, quit a good job, moved half-way around the world with my wife and waited three years, took a test and I now have a Canadian passport. Its the thing I think I'm most proud of.

Then Harper ruined it.

[–]Youshallneverknowme 5 points6 points ago

My final paper for a poli sci course on EU politics was about how nationalism inevitably leads to racism. It happens all over the globe. People think I am so weird that I wont say the pledge of alegiance. I wont bow my head or hold my hand over my heart. I usually take this time to give myself a pat on the back for being able to critically think and think how sad it is the ignorance of the sheep around me. maybe a lot of people think like me and are too scared to not do it in public but idk.

[–]controlmath 0 points1 point ago

I felt that way in high school, and still currently, but people gave me and my friend weird looks for not even standing during the pledge of allegiance.

The best time I had to have had would have been when my friend and I were in a police station doing a report on a local government meeting for our senior government project. We sat for both the pledge and for a prayer that they had. The cops were not happy with us from the looks on their faces but didn't say anything.

[–]Youshallneverknowme 0 points1 point ago

yeah wtf is with the praying. I remember when I was younger at different meetings etc and dont remember prayers. Its the damn right wingers tossing prayer into everything. seriously wtf would there be prayer for?

[–]Super_King_ 5 points6 points ago

Pride of culture, not actual pride of being irish. Like most of Carlin's quotes, this falls apart with any actual thinking.

[–]nugz85 0 points1 point ago

Why would you have pride in culture? If you grew up in a different culture, you would probably have pride in that other culture. Most people who grow up in whatever culture or ethnicity have pride in it. Carlin is saying there isn't any reason to have pride in something, just because you are born into it.

Arabs have pride in arabic culture, chinese have pride in chinese culture, native americans have pride in their culture, etc. There isn't any reason to have pride in it just because you grew up in it. Are burkas something to take pride in? People from european cultures would probably say no, but some muslims would say yes. Both cultures would take pride in how they treat women, except in opposite ways. Is there a reason for either group to have pride?

[–]Super_King_ 0 points1 point ago

Perhaps not, but you haven't presented an argument to not be proud of it. Why shouldn't you take pride in your culture, why does it matter that you were just born into it?

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points ago

Downvote me to hell before we all go suck George Carlin's cock, but I think it is reasonable to take pride in your culture: not pride from being born in a certain place with certain parents, but pride because of who your ancestors were and what they did, and because you're now a part of that tradition.

[–]st_saint 27 points28 points ago

Let's reverse it shall we. Will you be ashamed of crimes that your ancestors committed even though you played no part in it?

I can understand if you feel grateful or happy or humbled to be part of an old,rich culture and/or tradition. But to be proud of something in which you have zero contribution sounds ridiculous to me.

[–]cinnamonandgravy 11 points12 points ago

Will you be ashamed of crimes that your ancestors committed even though you played no part in it?

yup. gotta take the good with the bad. you stand upon their shoulders, however they may be.

[–]st_saint 2 points3 points ago

Heh! your comment reminds me of this. Anyhow I just looked up "Pride" in a dictionary and :

Noun : Pride

  1. A feeling of self-respect and personal worth

  2. Satisfaction with your or another's achievements

  3. The trait of being spurred on by a dislike of falling below your standards

  4. A group of lions

  5. Unreasonable and inordinate self-esteem (personified as one of the deadly sins)

So if we take into consideration the meanings 1 and 2,it turns out that we both are correct; just a little confused. It's all right though, learning is fun.

[–]YDRRL 0 points1 point ago

inordinate self-esteem

There's a lot of that going around.

[–]heavenlytoaster 0 points1 point ago

Original sin inherited through eons? Sounds legit!

[–]josiahw 0 points1 point ago

Sorry, but I don't want to be punished in any way (including feeling guilty) for the sins of my forebearers. Instead, understand and learn from their mistakes, and that's it. Also, understand and learn from their successes.

[–]paranode 2 points3 points ago

The problem is having pride in something and using it as an excuse for prejudice against those who are different. If you can have pride and avoid that pitfall, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

[–]this_is_my_favorite 0 points1 point ago

If you represent your culture, then you most certainly are providing a contribution, no matter how small it may seem. I will accept your last statement, but it does not follow from the first.

[–]kicktown 2 points3 points ago

To me it's like a different sort of pride. I'm proud of the fortune of my genetics... but it's closer to gratitude to the universe for not being born without limbs or something like that. Pride that my genetics, fortune, and ancestral will managed to carry me this far and that I have the opportunity to make something of myself based on the actions of my ancestors.

It's not personal pride because I didn't do anything to be born a white male and did little worth noting to become an American citizen... Yet I still feel some grateful pride in being part of these groups.

What would bother me most is when people take this pride as a position of superiority.

I guess I'm proud to be whatever the fuck I happen to be and being able to make my own way in this world because of, inspite of, or despite my natural identity.

[–]PraiseBeToScience 1 point2 points ago

I agree and disagree. As I've written here it's valid to take pride in contrinbuting back to something that gives you so much. However, when you say culture, you seem to argue from an ethnocentric point of view.

For instance, I do not belong to an Arabic culture, yet I benefit immensely from the achievements of Arabic culture in the Middle Ages, before it was pissed away by theocratic dictatorships and war.

[–]straighten 1 point2 points ago

Holy floating apostrophe, Batman! The quotation marks are killing me!

[–]FatalTricycle 1 point2 points ago

RIP guru

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points ago

I'm proud of being a Swedish citizen.

[–]xccriminal 1 point2 points ago

Living in the states, I do get shot for being a Canadian. I feel like pride can be generated out of even a joking adversity.

[–]downtown_vancouver 0 points1 point ago

shot shit

I see what you did there. I've had a few jobs offers from south of the border and the prospect of living with all those people that own/carry guns has always kept me north of the 49th.

So be proud of your bravery!

[–]HelpImSurrounded 1 point2 points ago

Personally, as a gay man, I think Pride should just be renamed

"I SURVIVED ALL THIER F'ING BS for ANOTHER YEAR"

[–]lilskr4p_Y 1 point2 points ago

Plato and Socrates would disagree...

[–]Pickle_Inspecto 1 point2 points ago

I feel like there should be a separate word for being "proud" of something you have no control over, since it's really a separate emotion. It's not a feeling of accomplishment as much as it is a respect/love for a part of yourself. I'm proud of being gay, but I'm not high-fiving myself over it, and I think it's the same for many people who are proud of their ethnic/national heritage... or at least I hope so.

[–]ShockedSystem 1 point2 points ago

Wow, what a load of horseshit.

[–]Epithemus 2 points3 points ago

James Brown is rolling in his grave.

[–]Coffee_plus_oldmovie 0 points1 point ago

Why is that?

[–]turnleftdale 1 point2 points ago

Absolutely nothing to do with atheism.

[–]sexiestmanalive 3 points4 points ago

Groupishness is one of the most basic components of human nature. Sure it's somewhat illogical to define it as "pride" but we evolved to be protective and proud of our own family/tribe/team/country in order to encourage its survival. So sorry being human George.

[–]unbraikable 1 point2 points ago

We have a lot of evolutionary traits that are harmful to society and human happiness.

[–]darngooddogs 1 point2 points ago

Then maybe society as we know it is the problem, and if we followed evolutionary traits more, we would be happier. That is nationalism.

[–]DamnyouPenelope 1 point2 points ago

Monogamy is a social construct that is widely accepted. It's far from what our evolutionary trait for sexual partners dictates.

[–]darngooddogs 0 points1 point ago

And there is nothing wrong with it. Again, let's follow our evolutionary paths, not social constructs.

[–]sexiestmanalive 0 points1 point ago

True True. I guess I was more put off by the feigned "I could never understand part." I think its irrational to look at human issues from a solely cerebral standpoint. You have to consider the rest of the brain too not just the logical part. But thats comedy I guess.

[–]AverroesGhost 2 points3 points ago

Well...I'm pretty proud of my large penis size, and that just happens to be an accident of good genes.

[–]RSM9GreenLantern 2 points3 points ago

This brings up a point that makes Carlin a hypocrite in my eyes. If he feels this way then why does he have a favorite sports team? He doesnt participate in the game. People that say things like "I love the yankees, We are going to go far again this year" are one of my pet peeves.

[–]PraiseBeToScience 1 point2 points ago

I would also add pride for contributing to a team is a valid form of pride, and one I value more than my own personal achievements. I work in product development, and the products we design are far more complicated than any one person could ever hope to design, as most consumer gadgets are. It's really cool to be part of a team that makes something far cooler than any of us as individuals could achieve.

I actually find it awe inspiring to stand on the shoulders of giants and think I could actually contribute even a tiny part to that.

[–]ExtraExtraLong 1 point2 points ago

Reminds me of one of the most eloquently written rap songs ever produced - "Squeeze the Trigger" by Ice T:

"People hate people for color of face, No one has a choice in their race or place, A brother in Queens was beaten and chased, Murdered cold in the streets, A goddamn disgrace, And because of his race, His life went to waste, And none went to jail, When the court heard the case, Justice or corruption? It's all interlaced, How can you swallow this? I can't stand the taste."

[–]darngooddogs 1 point2 points ago

I like Carlin, but I disagree here. My ancestors DNA exists in me, I am them. It is just fine to take pride in the accomplishments of ones forefathers, there is no difference between you and them.

[–]Varselle 0 points1 point ago

By that logic then it makes sense for you to be ashamed for every bad thing your ancestors have done.

[–]darngooddogs 1 point2 points ago

If my ancestors did something wrong, and I can do something positive about it, I will. The memories of some things don't go away very fast. Think civil war in any country. I see nothing wrong with the descendants of japanese soldiers apologizing to Chinese people who's ancestors were victimized. It's just the right thing to do.

[–]Varselle 1 point2 points ago

yes but it still doesn't change the fact you can't hang on to the coattails of what someone else did regardless if they happen to share dna with you. The reason why you would want to make amends of what you ancestors did comes from some from of shame. Why not be proud of something you actually did? Something that you had a hand in creating? Wouldn't that be more satisfying for taking credit for something your great grandfather did?

[–]mjskhblflsch 0 points1 point ago

Why can't you do both? Be proud of your ancestors' accomplishments and add your own accomplishments for future generations to be proud of.

[–]Varselle 0 points1 point ago

because it's called standing on your own merit. It's not easy for one to do things of personal accomplishment. That's why I believe most people take pride in such meaning less things such as race, or nation, or sexual orientation, or any other social group. I'm sorry I just don't see how I can be prideful because my grandfather served in WW2. Sure it was great that he did that, but does it make sense for me to walk around with a pride boner because of it? I take pride in things that I have done such as teaching my kid nephew how to tie his shoes and my artistic ability. I just find it silly when I hear people say "Azn Pride!" "Latinas do it better" "Im representin L.A" Just trivial nonsense.

[–]darngooddogs 0 points1 point ago

Yes, it would be more satisfying. But, it in no way precludes pride in the achievements of my forefathers.

[–]MineCraftandcheese 2 points3 points ago

On an unrelated note, is it just me or does George look cock-eyed in that photo?

[–]meerkatsarentreal 2 points3 points ago

I'm sure most of use are aware of this quote from old George, and I'm sure many of us thought this before we had heard him say it, but...

What the hell does this have to do with atheism?

[–]myhouseisgod 0 points1 point ago

Louis CK has a bit that is similar, but is far funnier, in my opinion.

[–]frenchieski 0 points1 point ago

hm

[–]mvskoke 0 points1 point ago

...this man was years ahead of his time

[–]KoodooKooskoos 0 points1 point ago

As regards this statement, he was just touching on a basic principle that many have practiced over thousands of years.

[–]Keylager 0 points1 point ago

"I'm proud to be an American... Where at least I know I'm free" Chuckles

[–]Ozzsanity 0 points1 point ago

Better the pride that resides in a citizen of the world..........

[–]bpmf 0 points1 point ago

George, you crack me up, looking for reason in peoples' pride! Reason <> emotion.

[–]newguy25 0 points1 point ago

I miss George. :(

[–]NewteN 0 points1 point ago

Well, I'll tell you, George. Because the vast majority of humans lack the proper education, upbringing, overall mental capacity or genetic alteration to overcome the instinct for upper-pack mammals to form and conform into groups... or well... uhm... packs. You see, one is supposed to be proud of and loyal to the pack one is born into - such an inheritable trait greatly increases the fitness of any species who has evolved to utilize cooperation, altruism and teamwork; the evidence for this is abundantly clear in mammals observable today. Humans, still barely removed from ancestral mammalian traits, tend to inherent said pack-mentality. This is also why many strive to belong, adhere to or impose social norms.

You see, if we had evolved differently - say, at pivotal points in our development, it was no longer prudent for great apes to move in packs or to interact positively with members outside of their own direct gene pool (i.e. only providing for offspring, siblings, mates) then it would be quite possible that today's humans (if they even made it to something that resembles our level of cognition) would be much less interested in the division of groups and resources.

[–]cnqrrs 0 points1 point ago

Let's just answer social constructions with biology. Whoop de whoop do.

[–]mjskhblflsch 1 point2 points ago

And be condescending while we do it.

[–]NewteN 0 points1 point ago

You mean 'constructs'. Also, yes let's; along with the entire field of sociobiology and its tumbling masses of scientific literature, researchers and professors. Yes, let's do that.

[–]YouTubeReference 0 points1 point ago

I'm proud to be 6'1"

[–]spawn_of_a_baptist 0 points1 point ago

I'm proud to be an atheist..

[–]Simultanagnosia 0 points1 point ago

Pride has no use except in clouding the mind and bringing some isolated self-satisfaction to an individual. Kind of like masturbation.

One can accept the way things are, not as a concession but merely as recognition and beyond there is no need of anything. There is reasonable evidence to suggest that "Pride" used to draw attention to a minority issue is only productive at bringing in-group solidarity, and not out-group conversion or acceptance, and may even cause further polarization of the in-group/out-group antagonism. "Shoving it in their face" more often has the effect of threatening them which in turn causes a defensive state.

But there are many people with disorganized brains that depend on positive feelings of self-regard in order to maintain some semblance of sanity in a highly judgmental and competitive world. They react to that judgment with an overabundance of pride and in-your-face behavior that only seems to cause further rivalry.

[–]Qweloquiallisms 0 points1 point ago

I was flipping through channels a couple years ago and came across the routine in which he said this. Became my favorite comedian/philosopher next to Demetri Martin instantly.

[–]RemedialChaosTheory 0 points1 point ago

Proud to be carbon based

[–]Atheizm 0 points1 point ago

The amount of times I have explain shit like this to people is fucking horrible. I lump this pride drivel in with people who like to claim special dispensation because of something fatuous culture or religion.

[–]fixthecopier 0 points1 point ago

I thought this was about Lions. Wrong kind again.

[–]cmdood 0 points1 point ago

This is exactly why i don't tell friends/family when i'm proud of them. Why? They're not my achievements

[–]fegd 0 points1 point ago

Funny because as a gay man that's how I've always felt about "gay pride". It makes no sense to me, it's like being proud of liking broccoli and not brusselsprouts.

[–]quinofking 0 points1 point ago

When i hear self centered people talk about how they only feel pride in them selves and they dont need anyone , all i think its that episode of the big bang theory when Leonard's mom comes over and talks about his siblings accomplishments and Penny is like "You must be proud of them" and shes like "why they're not my accomplishments". thats what i imagine when i heard Carlin say this or, Adam Savage closing line at "Atheist Con" or what ever it was called. it is possible to be proud of something you didnt necessarily accomplish, its when you become an asshole about it and even go to war about it thats the problem!!! otherwise you're an even bigger douche for telling others they shouldn't feel a certain way, when they dont harm anyone

[–]Scopae 0 points1 point ago

People who say that they are proud to be christian are the biggest idiots of all since pride is in fact one of the 7 deadly sins...

[–]EriMus 0 points1 point ago

I watch that part of that video about once a week.

[–]foamingpipesnake 0 points1 point ago

This accurately describes why I can't stand the violently fierce pride some people have for their local sports teams.

[–]myhandsarebananas 0 points1 point ago

Well nationalism began as essentially forced pride in the late 18th and 19th century in order to unify kingdoms into modern states or gain support for revolution. Lots of made up holidays, songs, parades etc. emerged with the sole intention of making people feel connected.

[–]yourfrigginguide 0 points1 point ago

That's actually why I don't like gay pride parade.

[–]CreamWafers 0 points1 point ago

This is so true. I would like to add that you can't blame someone for being born in a certain country either.

[–]KStreetFighter2 0 points1 point ago

Plus, if I say I'm proud to be a white male I'll look like a dick

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points ago

There's no such thing as being on the right side of pride

Proverbs 18:13

If one rejects a matter before he hears, it is folly and shame to him.

Proverbs 11:2

Pride comes, then shame comes, but with the lowly is wisdom.

Proverbs 18:12

Before shattering, a man's heart is haughty, but humility goes before honor.

Proverbs 29:23

The pride of man brings him low, but the humble of spirit takes hold of honor.

Proverbs 16:18-19

Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.

It is better to be of a lowly spirit with the poor than to divide the spoil with the proud.

[–]perfektstranger 5 points6 points ago

I love how the Bible speaks out again pride, but God demands people acknowledge him and everything he's done all throughout. Oh, and don't talk to other gods, because he's jealous too.

[–]unbraikable 4 points5 points ago

lolreligion

[–]DefinitelyRelephant 3 points4 points ago

If you had bothered to actually walk through the effects of pride on the human psyche then I would've upvoted you, but since all you did was regurgitate bullshit from the Iron Age I guess you get a downvote.

[–]Dupshflayh 0 points1 point ago

You know, this isn't actually contributing anything to a sub-reddit centered around Atheism.