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[–]benyameen 23 points24 points ago

The thing is though no matter how many people, or how many times I hear it, my mind just assumes that they are lying about it to try to make me feel better or something along those lines. This in turn makes me feel even worse about it all.

Fucking vicious cycle.

[–]FallenAngelShi[S] 10 points11 points ago

And that's exactly why I was hoping it could help someone else. Because I feel like people are lying to me too when they say it. But maybe someone out there needed to hear it.

I'm sorry you're stuck in this vicious cycle too.

[–]Collaterlie_Sisters 2 points3 points ago

There WILL be something to break the cycle, something positive. You won't believe it now, but one day you'll be able to look back and see it.

[–]HughMyron 1 point2 points ago

Viscous?

[–]benyameen 0 points1 point ago

Hah, the joys of tapping out a comment on a phone... I hadn't noticed.

[–]Arcon1337 11 points12 points ago

[–]FallenAngelShi[S] 3 points4 points ago

hugs

[–]old911broad 4 points5 points ago

This is great. Thanks.

[–]FallenAngelShi[S] 2 points3 points ago

You're welcome

[–]jgosche 3 points4 points ago

Thanks, kind bear.

[–]FallenAngelShi[S] 1 point2 points ago

Any time

[–]seahorses4lyfe 3 points4 points ago

I'm so glad you did, it helped me. You know that fluttery nervous feeling you get in your chest/stomach when you're hating on yourself? Maybe not, but it happens to me when I'm sure I'm not going to be good enough and this just about slayed it. Thank you.

[–]FallenAngelShi[S] 2 points3 points ago

I do know that feeling. I'm so glad it helped you!

[–]amissio 3 points4 points ago

Adorable and true.

[–]ccm596 3 points4 points ago

This makes me tear up every time I see it.

[–]Simplexity 2 points3 points ago

As it is a repost on this subreddit. It is absolutely amazing to see this picture every time. I freaking love it so much. Thank you thank you for the repost. (wow, you don't read that often)

[–]FallenAngelShi[S] 1 point2 points ago

I just started on this subreddit. But you're welcome

[–]Simplexity 1 point2 points ago

Well then, welcome to you as well.

[–]HughMyron 3 points4 points ago

Saw "Hey, Listen"

Assumed it would be a Zelda reference.

Son I am disappoint.

[–]thynth 1 point2 points ago

I keep telling that to my (I hope soon-to-be) gf.

She always refuses that I'm that idiotic, so dumb and ... idiotic.

And still I'm not sure if she means it or just keeps telling me to not feel as bad as I feel all day the whole day.

I hope this works out...

[–]FallenAngelShi[S] 2 points3 points ago

I hope it works out too.

You're an awesome person. Remember that.

[–]DarnHeather 1 point2 points ago

Thank you. Really struggling today and this made me grin. I appreciate it.

[–]FallenAngelShi[S] 2 points3 points ago

I'm glad I could help!

[–]nerdyogre254 1 point2 points ago

Thanks, I needed this.

[–]ThunderGyra 0 points1 point ago

Internet hug

[–]DrewciferCDXX 0 points1 point ago

I always laugh when that bear talks to me, because I know he's only a figment of my imagination.

[–]YOU_MADE_ME -5 points-4 points ago

No this does not help. It is empty and impersonal.

[–]jsstaedtler 0 points1 point ago

I'm forced to agree. I personally find that when someone who has never met me, and knows nothing about me, gives me a compliment out of the blue, it's impossible to believe it. It can't be anything more than an empty platitude.

But that's how I feel. I'm sincerely glad that there are so many people for whom this is truly meaningful.