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[–]anotherworkingstiff 258 points259 points ago

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NONE OF US KNOW WHAT WE'RE DOING.

[–][deleted] 108 points109 points ago

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eventually though, you get better at pretending.

[–]burntsac 31 points32 points ago

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Yep - smoke and mirrors, my friend.

[–]hobbnet 33 points34 points ago

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Ya, in my 30's I'm even more lost...But I realize it doesn't really matter! :)

[–]Sklanskers 17 points18 points ago

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Even engineers don't know what they're doing:

"The Art of molding materials we do not wholly understand Into shapes we cannot precisely analyze So as to withstand forces we cannot really assess In such a way that the community at large has no reason to suspect The extent of our ignorance."

  • Dr. E.H. Brown, modified by Dr. A.R. Dykes

[–]playinodds 4 points5 points ago

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all it talks about is precision, really.

we have some understanding of the material, and some understanding of complex shapes, and some understanding of the forces, so our analysis is somewhat accurate.

deaths due to engineering failures are a heck of a lot smaller than deaths due to humans being a bunch of tards.

[–]ozzmotic 3 points4 points ago

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Great scott.

[–]tobascodagama 1 point2 points ago

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With the appropriate word substitutions, this explains why <insert any system you like here> is a buggy piece of shit.

[–]gyrorobo 43 points44 points ago*

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As someone who feels pretty lost as well... This is the best thing to hear, shit just made my day.

Edit: For those who want some background, I am currently trying to finish my first year at a community college because my family doesn't want to pay a lot of money and I do not have a job... I have no major and no idea what I want to do with my life. I am using graduation money for books and borrowing money from my parents until one of the 10+ places I've applied to call me back.

tl;dr - You are most likely more successful than I am.

[–]fullyoperational 6 points7 points ago

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I found that I always felt lost and constantly drifting, but that the real problem wasn't external, but internal; specifically I underestimated how little I know myself, and what that actually means (part of which being how little I really know/knew).

Hope this helps with the search. PM if you'd enjoy a chat.

[–]herecomethefuzz 1 point2 points ago

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Early twenties here. Not a clue what the fuck I do next. What's your status, over-

[–]obadub 2 points3 points ago

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Too fuckin' true. I just want to fast forward a couple years.

[–]anotherworkingstiff 6 points7 points ago

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The only thing that gets better with time is your attitude and sense of humour. Use them.

[–]techtechmctech 1 point2 points ago

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please please do your self a favor and do a useful subject like bio, engineering or something with a profession you can have after. I graduated with a social science degree, and what did it get me after graduation?, zip, zero. I am back to square one with wasted college money.

Many people will disagree and say I learnt alot on college, and indeed i did, but will the stuff I learnt provide me with practical skills and a real job? hell no.

[–]TheFedds 9 points10 points ago

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You made a lot of people happy to know they are not alone ( me Being one of them) Thank you brotha

[–]yousirarecorrect 7 points8 points ago

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You sir, are correct.

[–]Literal_LOL 6 points7 points ago

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I'm almost 23, I hope I can find out what I'm doing soon. :/

[–]Minyme2009 4 points5 points ago

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[–]bcdaphi 2 points3 points ago

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Yeah, the more you learn the more you realize how little you know.

[–]bcdaphi 1 point2 points ago

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Yeah, the more you learn the more you realize how little you know.

[–]DTrainSmash 114 points115 points ago

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Early twenties? Yeah, that feeling isn't going away anytime soon, friend.

[–]CorkyKribler 51 points52 points ago

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I'm 29, and I can safely say that my early 20s were stressful as fuck. I wish I would have known that everything would be fine and way more stable later on, but you know, it's how it goes.

Being 23 is fun and also shitty.

[–]shmaughn 16 points17 points ago

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I'm turning 23 on Sunday... so, thank you?

[–]brtlblayk 14 points15 points ago

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"Nobody likes you when your TWENTY-THREE!!!!!!!" - Blink-182

I've got 3 years left........ I don't think I'm liked at this age anyway, though... :(

[–]ThisIsYourProfessor 9 points10 points ago

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"A decade ago, I never thought I would be at twenty three/ On the verge of spontaneous combustion, woe is me/ But I guess that it comes with the territory/ An ominous landscape of never ending calamity"

-Incubus, "Pardon Me."

It seems 23 is a well-documented age among artists. It's documented as sucking, but still.

[–]brtlblayk 7 points8 points ago

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I bet it's because you're at that awkward stage of ACTUALLY growing up and having to be by yourself or something.

[–]altf404 1 point2 points ago

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three downvoters would agree with ya there chump

[–]DukeSpraynard 1 point2 points ago

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[–]jes1001 5 points6 points ago

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31, still feel like a kid that is just getting lucky at passing off as a functioning adult.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points ago

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hardest years of my life, 26 now

[–]anndor 1 point2 points ago

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I'm 28 and miss my early 20's terribly. 20 and 21 were cake: "Graduate college". Awesome! I know what I'm supposed to be doing.

2 years post-graduation: "Bask in the glory of graduation, take some time while I can afford it to just dick around before I settle into a career" Awesome! I know what I'm doing.

Now: "Fuck my life, what the hell am I doing? What should I be doing? What do I want to be doing? There is no pre-mapped plan and my previous plan has not returned the results I expected."

[–]ninety6days 6 points7 points ago

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26 and fucking clueless. Far as i'm concerned i can dress it up as a lifestyle choice and convince myself it's just collateral brilliance.

[–]Namdoog 1 point2 points ago

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Fake it till you make it.

[–]JavaLSU 5 points6 points ago

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I think it's a personality thing. I'm in my early thirties, and I'm good with what I'm doing.

Then again, I felt that way throughout my twenties. I think it's a mixture of be confident about what I know what to do, and don't stress about the stuff I don't know. There's plenty of time to figure that stuff out.

[–]DTrainSmash 6 points7 points ago

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I agree to an extent. I think as I've progressed into my thirties, the same knowledge that gives me confidence in what I do also assures me that I have no Fucking clue what I'm "really" doing. I've stumbled blindly into a great life. I have a very successful wife, a brilliant little girl and a house in a great neighborhood. But I'm smart enough to realize that most of my happy life is the result of my wife's hard work, since I picked the in-so-well-paying profession of 'musician'. But I'm happy and secure in that. I've just learned to adjust my plans and goals. I'm basically a house husband, which let's me play with my child all day and go play gigs at night. That's my rambling way of saying not to expect to ever feel like you know what's going on. But sometimes, life is a lot more fun that way.

[–]riddle_a_riddle 1 point2 points ago

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Sounds like an amazing life & wife.

[–]hampsterwheel 88 points89 points ago

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Mid twenties with two IT degrees and I just ate cereal out of a plastic cup. Good luck to you, sir.

[–]IAmSteven 20 points21 points ago

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oh come on, i'm in my early twenties working on a liberal arts degree and i cook myself a damn fine meal when i get hungry. seriously, learn to make yourself a good meal, it makes you feel better

[–]wm07 46 points47 points ago

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what is so bad about cereal

[–]IAmSteven 27 points28 points ago

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it was more the plastic cup part.

[–]majorbigtime 56 points57 points ago

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I eat my Lucky Charms out of silver bowls with only the finest mother-of-pearl spoons.

[–]Belthor 14 points15 points ago

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What is so bad about plastic cups? Cheap, no clean up, environmentally unsound.

[–]notbookies 1 point2 points ago

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I eat cereal out of cool whip containers. You should try it, it's highly convenient.

[–]be_mindful 3 points4 points ago

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depends on the cereal. do we really need to say why Frosted Flakes are bad?

[–]dr_derp627 4 points5 points ago

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But I heard from a reliable source that they'reeeeeeeeeeee GREATTTT

[–]Gibbsey 6 points7 points ago

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Liberal Arts Degree maybe you could cook his meals someday? (joking obviously XP)

[–]Mattizzle 1 point2 points ago

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Ever eat cereal out of a plastic cup? It's delightful.

[–]dmsweeney 39 points40 points ago

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The day you realize that everyone else is also faking it is the day you become an adult.

[–]HolgerBier 5 points6 points ago

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The day you realise that most people have no clue of what and/or why they are doing things is like the day you find out your dad isn't superman. It takes away a lot of certainty, as I've always believed people stop fucking around at a certain age. Looking at the presidential candidates, that has been very much disproven

[–]That_Damn_Sasquatch 3 points4 points ago

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Step right up folks, watch carefully and dmsweeney here will show you how to hit the nail square on the head.

[–]5acred 30 points31 points ago

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23, Just graduated. Shit degree. Single. Shitty social life. No job.

Just glad I have an awesome and understanding family.

[–]Haroshia 5 points6 points ago

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Oh hey me from five years ago except with a cool family. You should try exercise. It helps.

[–]escalat0r 12 points13 points ago

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I don't know what to do but send you some brolove from Germany. Having a caring family is great and one of the most important things.

[–]5acred 6 points7 points ago

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Thanks man, means a lot.

[–]escalat0r 1 point2 points ago

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You're welcome :)

[–]Never_Seen_An_Ocelot 5 points6 points ago

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You'll be fine bud. I was in your spot at 23, then I decided to pack up everything and move to the mountains of beautiful Whistler, British Columbia. While I was there, I met a bunch of incredible people who all worked jobs just to pay the bills...so there was no judging. I worked part time jobs at Subway and Starbucks, lived in a shared place for $400 a month, and never made plans more than 24 hours in advance. Partied with some people and reflected on life.

Being out there changed something in me. At first, I had no direction in life and felt like I had no passion or hope...but the key was indeed working out. I started by running a mile and blindly working my way around the machines. After about two weeks, something clicked and I started feeling a greater sense of self-confidence and self-worth. Now I'm back in the states, ignoring my old finance degree that I have no love for, and I'm starting fresh on a track I love. It might not be the "smart" thing to do, but life with purpose beats floating around wondering how much happier you could be. Let me know if you have any questions, I'd be happy to offer advice based on what I've learned.

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[–]5acred 4 points5 points ago

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I did a year of Computer Science but found it too hard due to all the maths, despite being told by the course leader that my poor/average maths skills wouldn't be a problem.

Being in a panic that I had failed the year and knew a resit was not an option I panicked and found another course. I thought my parents were going to hang me from the ceiling by my balls for messing up so I decided that I would find a course, get accepted before I told them. I did this and it worked out fine.

Problem was I really needed to sit and think about my options more, maybe doing an apprenticeship instead of university but this never seemed like an option. Always seemed like University or you become a loser. So after failing at a degree that my parents wanted me to do because it would make me rich, I decided to take another path and do one in something I enjoyed. I did photography. Now I enjoy it as a hobby but the course has left me hating photography and I want nothing to do with it.

Sorry for the lengthy explanation.

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[–]homeboy5925 27 points28 points ago

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ADVICE:

  1. dont get anything pregnant
  2. dont put a ring on anything
  3. save your money, travel as often as possible
  4. find something you love, put your head down and blindly devote everything you have to it. This will keep you sane.

[–]PerryNoydicus 10 points11 points ago

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how do you travel if you are saving money?

unless by travel you mean riding the ol bicycle down to Jack's pack-it and picking up some zig-zags

[–]KT88 4 points5 points ago

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No Tattoos until you're 30

[–]homeboy5925 9 points10 points ago

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more like no tattoos after 30

my tattoos are a constant reminder of my youth

[–]KalOrtPor 23 points24 points ago

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Welcome to the rest of your life

[–]hiv_negative 16 points17 points ago

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Yep. Food and refreshments are there on the left, and nooses on the right, enjoy.

[–]duckandcover 40 points41 points ago*

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I am 50. If there's one thing I've learned is how unbelievably arrogant I was earlier in my life, at any earlier point, to think I was only as ignorant as I thought I was. The amount of shit everyone doesn't know is astounding and getting older is the ever increasing realization of just how true that is; i.e. how little you know.

EDIT

I will say that the advent of the Internet has given even young people the ability to easily get a handle on this. Jut use RANDOM in reddit or the like in Wikipedia to see just how fucking ignorant you are...although RANDOM has also taught me just how many subjects I couldn't give a shit less about.

[–]Despotic 17 points18 points ago

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21 here. I really started realizing how little I knew when I discovered Reddit a couple years ago. This also made me realize that most people are full of shit and it's easier to just smile and nod than to tell them they don't have any idea what they are talking about. I'll be the first one to tell anyone that I don't know anything about anything, but that's because I know that there is a lot more to know than what I know, ya know?

[–]ThatGuyInHell 4 points5 points ago

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When I read the end of your statement I almost felt like I needed an Xzibit meme, you know...

[–]fullyoperational 1 point2 points ago

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Oh I know. And its not just almost everyone is full of shit, but that every single human being is full of shit. The shit cannot be gotten rid of;it is in the very way we approach reality. We just hone the shit into little sculptures that resemble the things that are actually going on, but we don't even realize were doing it, we see, hear, feel, and think in and of nothing but shit.

Its just shit all the way down

Sometimes its nice shit though

[–]bananapanorama 1 point2 points ago

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Hm. I know everything now, but 6 months ago I didn't know shit. 6 months ago, I thought I knew everything, but all I really knew was what I didn't know 12 months ago.

I'm sure 6 months from now I'll realize I don't know everything now, but at least I'll know everything then.

[–]Funkwagen28 155 points156 points ago

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[–]Artegan 2 points3 points ago

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I graduated in May, been working since August but I'm still with my parents too. Just saving up and planning right now I guess.

I guess you just have to hold out and hope you find a job. Until then, do little things, volunteer and make your life interesting.

[–]Artegan 31 points32 points ago

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Happy Birthday, and if you're serious about the job thing, I'm 22 and I've got a job.

In my experience, it's decent pay and the hours aren't bad. It's not my career, but it's easy and not dreadfully boring either.

However, before you get a job, ask yourself: Do I want money for the future, or do I want to do something else with my life for the present.

In all honesty, sometimes I'd rather be traveling. I'll probably save up a good couple of grand and quit eventually so I can do that.

[–]bonix 14 points15 points ago

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So are you just going to travel alone? I saved up some money and want to travel but would like to do it with someone however everyone I know is either already settling down or is too broke. I am 25 and have no idea what I'm doing

[–]Irish-Ink 12 points13 points ago*

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This is the reason Iv'e chickened out of the traveling I want to do, I'm afraid to go alone, I'm 33 and don't want to put it off much longer but all my friends are broke, all the fricken time. Not to draw attention to being a girl but it makes me extra afraid of being alone in a strange place and maybe getting hurt.

Edit: I accidentally a word.

[–]ThatGuyInHell 15 points16 points ago

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Long time lurker, first time posting. I can say that I have been talking about going to Japan for years and I finally just bit the bullet an ordered my flight, JR Pass, Hotel, etc. I am heading to Japan in April for one month just to have fun by my self. Am I a little concerned yep, but I figured if I don't do it now I never would. Also in the same boat about friends being to poor to go.

[–]Irish-Ink 3 points4 points ago

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I'm glad you posted and your making your trip happen, It gives me motivation to bite the bullet and follow through on mine, now if only you were going to Ireland in March we could spend a day exploring together as newbies!

[–]ThatGuyInHell 1 point2 points ago

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You will have fun there I went in 2003 (was part of my tour of parts of Europe.) I plan to go back though may not be till next year. I really want to get to Italy this time as well. Also if you have ever though about it couch surfing is a great way to meet new people even if you don't stay with them. I have had people stay with me over the years and I have met up with some people on my trips. At least at a minimal they can show you the ropes of the area your in. Also as a note I am 29 and will turn 30 three days after I arrive in Japan, I am going to try and WOW out as my friend would say.

[–]HolgerBier 3 points4 points ago

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Ah, don't be concerned. When we were 16 and 17 me and a mate went to Japan, and had a blast. The country is very safe, unless you want it not to, and even then it's hard.

Poor friends suck, or at least the ones who are because they can't prioritize money.

[–]effusiveoutburst 6 points7 points ago

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I'm 21 and in the same boat. I hate this boat.

[–]CobraStallone 1 point2 points ago

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I'm 21 and I don't know what boat we are in.

[–]Chiglio 1 point2 points ago

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As long as it's a love boat, worry not.

[–]Irish-Ink 1 point2 points ago*

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I think our only choices are to make it happen alone, kick our friends in the ass or make friends with strangers, I still have yet to settle on one of them.

[–]captjet23 5 points6 points ago

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Once you start travelling, you're never really alone. You just have to put yourself out there and do it. Along the way you will see that it's really awesome. And it's not quite as dangerous as you think. Most roadies and walkers have respect for the women who travel alone. You just have to be careful hitchhiking in some places and with some people, and it is preferable to learn some kind of self defense before hand, just in case

[–]Irish-Ink 1 point2 points ago

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That's really great advice, I'm going to start looking for a fairly cheap class right away. Thank you, and it's good to hear it's not as scary as Iv'e been picturing!

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[–]Irish-Ink 1 point2 points ago

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Very nice, travel safely :)

[–]ennasue 17 points18 points ago

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same! many of my friends are getting married (at 23!?!?!) or have settled into a career they 'love' and are not interested in traveling with me.

oh, and there's this thing called money - i have none. trying to save up for a giant trip (or a move) but i'm realistically only getting by month-by-month. i'm coming to the conclusion that right now, while i'm not tied down to anything/one, i'm going to just enjoy myself and living in the moment.

I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I'M DOING!

[–]SaiMan 2 points3 points ago

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What do you do?

[–]viper6575 2 points3 points ago

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We need an answer! What is this job you speak of?

[–]milhouse3083 25 points26 points ago

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Shoot I am in my late 20's and I still have no idea what I'm doing.

[–]Ragnalypse 58 points59 points ago

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I'm 19 and can already walk on my hands. I'd say I have a pretty solid grasp of the world.

[–]milhouse3083 7 points8 points ago

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I see what you did there.

[–]pl0xzz 35 points36 points ago

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http://i.imgur.com/3WVLP.png

Just turned 20. Never been so lost

[–]Kungen- 10 points11 points ago

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I'm twenty and just came out of my army service.
Now I'm back to being a civilian and I have no idea what the fuck I'm doing.
So many feels ;_;

[–]dmcnelly 2 points3 points ago

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Start saving whatever money you can, and bust your ass in school or work, depending on which way you're taking your life.

[–]Skeet__Skeet 10 points11 points ago

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"Fake it 'til you make it."

I always thought that saying was bullshit until I graduated from college and got a job. No one, no mater how old, has a handle on what they're doing. Most people just show up for work and hope no one notices that they're full of shit.

Work to live, don't live to work. Have fun while your young, travel often, meet new people and enjoy life while you can.

[–]Oddgenetix 16 points17 points ago

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My only advice: Fuck it. This whole life thing is kinda pass/fail. If you're coherent enough to repost, you're passing.

[–]race2finish 1 point2 points ago

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How existential of you.

[–]pimpernel666 5 points6 points ago

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Just wait 'til your late thirties, chief.

[–]thats_no_spoon 4 points5 points ago

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That feeling never really changes.

However in time you realize that nobody else really knows WTF they are doing either.

[–]GlitterRainbow 7 points8 points ago

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spoiler alert: your late 20's will be more of the same

[–]Ontopourmama 8 points9 points ago

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Old guy here, you know what you should do? Enjoy that feeling.

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[–]Sonicboom510 1 point2 points ago

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Truer words have never been said

[–]DarnTheseSocks 3 points4 points ago

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If only you were 18, you would have it all figured out.

[–]copperteeth 1 point2 points ago

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i had this discussion with a coworker. Hes 23 years older than me. He says your lifes understanding is like a roller coaster. When your young, your on the biggest climb of thinking you know everything. hes determined he has no more momentum for understanding stuff.

[–]Aisha11 5 points6 points ago

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I know that feel. I had a complete meltdown today when I realised I spent the last 4 years pursuing a career I'm not even sure I want. I threw up a lot.

[–]poopinlikeagypsy 1 point2 points ago

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I know the feeling. Got my degree in biology. Realize I fucking don't even like science. Stupid mistake on my part yes, but still feels bad man.

[–]wowdata 6 points7 points ago

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Well, shit, at least now I know what to expect. (20 Today)

[–]spazzydino 3 points4 points ago

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I used to get so upset at people looking down at me because I worked as a pot washer. They all aspired to careers and went to university...I did not know what the hell I was doing. But fuck em...my life is more than full filling. I'm now twenty with a baby. I have not been traveling around the world like my fellow school mates nor have I any qualifications to my name. IMHO a job does not represent who you are. Its all to do with what you do with YOUR time. Reddit is wonderfully insightful (if you try not to get too distracted by the cute kittens) read books, watch documentaries and keep that brain stimulated. Who knows what lies ahead. Chin up :)

[–]diulei 2 points3 points ago

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In more short professional life (I'm only several years older), I've come to realize that 90% of people feel the same way. Fake it 'til you make it.

[–]PerryNoydicus 1 point2 points ago

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and after you make it, Fake it some more.

[–]leoberto 14 points15 points ago

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Here's some Life advice:

  • Happiness, Is gained when you have no desire e.g. wow that girl is hot :( Shame I'm on a bus and she's walking on the road. or. Fuck chris is on more money then me look at his car

  • Spend 8 hours of your day doing something you enjoy, yes that's right if you hate your job you hate 1/3 of your whole life.

  • Always put the effort in to save money, or invest in school, invest early on, reap that shit later

  • Try and own these things (warning! don't desire just slowly get them over time); Car/Bike/A warm Coat; really awesome friends [you can Probably find them at a college/school/ or work place, and forget about the annoying ones] one flat screen with a PC connection, Gaming PC, an internet connection Profit; An Iphone (why because you can use Remote mouse App to browse youtube from your bed)

  • Okay so now you should have things pretty sweet, you desire nothing and therefore have a great deal less stress in your life, you enjoy being at work, and when you come home you enjoy that stuff too, oh your Iphones ringing your mates want to hang out later on, well done you have achieved plenty of win, if you are still stressing out it will be on one of these subjects, no money/ annoying girlfriend or ex, I'm afraid I cant help you with that. maybe you shouldn't have brought that flat screen.

    • Hats! people aren't wearing enough of them

[–]mfyc 4 points5 points ago

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Are you crazy??? Remote mouse App for $700??? I own a wireless mouse that I got for $13...

[–]copperteeth 1 point2 points ago

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bud you got a lot to learn about life.

[–]leoberto 3 points4 points ago

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I'm Really happy, so I think I'm doing it right.

[–]bobaimee 2 points3 points ago

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Amen.

[–]Girbek 2 points3 points ago

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You're not alone, and it doesn't get that much better in the second part of the 20's.

If you can, travel. That's the best thing I have ever done in my early 20's.

[–]maiello 2 points3 points ago

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i'm scared

[–]swampy13 2 points3 points ago

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Just turned 30. It gets worse.

[–]day_bidet 2 points3 points ago

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Just upvoted while thinking to myself "this is totally like, about my life." Then realized I am almost 30. Now, depression.

[–]Ahrounmoon 2 points3 points ago

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This is my mom's email signature and has been for the past few years:

"So, that’s what I wish for all of you: the bad as well as the good. Fall down, make a mess, break something occasionally. And remember that the story is never over." -Commencement Speech Harvard Class of 2000

It's a quote from Conan O'Brien and I think it's the best advice you can give someone who's just starting out. Go out and make a mess, it's what life's all about. And don't worry, it does get better.

[–]Stingerc 2 points3 points ago

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don't worry buddy, you'll still feel like that in your 30's, you'll just be better at faking it.

[–]VentureIndustries 2 points3 points ago

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I don't understand this. Lemme explain... After a fun, yet unorthodox childhood (homeschooled, lived in Europe, etc.), I went to an American public high school. My only focus while there was to make friends and party, which I did...hard. By the time I graduated all of my closest friends all left to prestigious colleges all over the country, and since I didn't take school all that seriously (2.7 gpa, average SAT scores) and my family doesn't have a lot of money I enrolled in my local community college. A little frustrated about my situation, I promised myself that no matter what happens I will keep my gpa at at least a 3.0 and hopefully find a field of study which I was passionate about.

So I maintained my grades, and jumped from history, to sociology, to anthropology (gotta love general studies) and finally biology, which I absolutely loved! And so I started thinking "what could I do with a degree in that field?": become a doctor! be a scientist!...BOTH! And that was that. I decided that that was what I was going to do.

Since then I've finished my associates degree in liberal arts (cum laude), transferred to a 4 year school to get a BS in Biology, and am now finishing all my prerequisites so I can also get a concentration in molecular biology and a minor in anthropology, since I still have an interest in that field. So far my grades are great, My extra curriculars are fantastic, and I've met some of the most interesting people! I'm well on my way to achieving my dream.

My point is that in order to fulfill a dream, you first have to find one. I used school to find mine, but I'm sure that there are many other ways out there (like opening your own business, traveling by finding a job which requires a lot of business trips, perfecting a hobby, et cetera). This is your life! and as far as we know you only get one. Find the thing that makes you want to get out of bed in the morning and do EVERYTHING you can to make it work. a passion can make a life worth living.

[–]kommando1 1 point2 points ago

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when i see the OPs image macro, I don't see it as a lack of direction in life, but as a commentary on the transition from know it all kid to independent adult and suddenly realizing that everyone is out in the weeds.

one thing that strikes me is that you are still in school. your last two paragraphs read like the blurb from the inside cover of a self help book. it's great that you have passion and a plan, but regardless there is a significant change after stepping outside of academia which many people choose to ignore in their grand plans.

whether a doctor or a scientist or an anthropologist, even one who loves their job and career and has passion for it, there is still the day to day "oh shit" which will bewilder anyone from time to time no matter how together they think they have it. some people are just better at hiding it than others. health, car, and property insurance, retirement planning, student loans, car payments, mortgage/rent, care for aging parents, marriage (divorce?), children, the weird guy across the street that stares at you out his window all the time, professional commitments, deadlines, and red tape. will you be able to get enough funding to continue whatever research you're working on? the furnace made a weird noise this morning, is it going to suddenly go tits up in the ditch? how long are you going to have to spend at the court house this week getting your tax assessment un-fucked? will you miss your daughters play at school? do you really have enough saved in case the project gets shut down and you have to pack up and move half way across the country in the middle of winter for a new position?

no matter how much direction and passion someone has, every now and then they're going to throw their hands up and think 'i need an adult'. the trick is to remember that you are the adult now and it will all work out. remember, i'm pulling for you. we're all in this together.

[–]VentureIndustries 1 point2 points ago

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You make a good point. And yes, there are definitely days where I sit there and ask myself: "What the hell am I doing?", but those moments are brief (a few days at the most), because they have to be.

I have seen too many people in our (?, I'm 23) generation get scared and just stop moving forward. Some of my friends have just given up, and have no desire to ever move out of their parents basements, meet new people, and just pull themselves out. Because ultimately, its up to them to get out of their situation, and as a friend you can only offer advice and help them where you can, but only they can make that decision to do something about it. The most tragic thing about it is that I, and other mutual friends, recognize that they have potential, but they're just too apathetic or too afraid to get themselves out.

I know the times are rough. I know that this ongoing recession has only made things harder to move on in life, and many of us aren't sure if we'll ever be secure in our lives, but goddammit, to those who are wallowing in their own doubts: JUST DO SOMETHING. anything! even doing the littlest thing is infinitely better than doing nothing at all.

[–]RichardManuel 1 point2 points ago

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Conan mug

[–]Morfolk 1 point2 points ago

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Welcome to the rest of your life!

[–]pete1729 1 point2 points ago

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Don't worry, no one else does either.

[–]sriris 1 point2 points ago

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Yep. Exactly.

[–]dasthegreen 1 point2 points ago

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Its the same in your mid 20's

[–]effusiveoutburst 1 point2 points ago

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You're not the only one, dude. After high school I wanted to drive across the country and see what's left of Route 66. I had saved the money and was all ready but couldn't go because no one would go with me. If I was a guy, I probably would have gone by myself. I've been taking classes and working while all my friends are going to school full time. They are graduating soon and I'm hoping maybe now one of them will realize the real world sucks and take a road trip with me. Unfortunately, I think they'll be drowning in student debt.

[–]la_soltera 1 point2 points ago

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Ha ha! I'm in my late 20s and I STILL feel this way.

[–]mrwatkins83 1 point2 points ago

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28 year old here. Making things up gets easier as you get older.

[–]bunnymeee 1 point2 points ago

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Well then you are doing it right....

[–]Pulls_out_two_uzis 1 point2 points ago

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Don't worry, you still wont know in your late 20s either. Only you'll be more employable.

[–]ihutch01 1 point2 points ago

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upvote for being oh so true

[–]MrBokbagok 1 point2 points ago

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The secret nobody told you as a kid: nobody fucking knows what they are doing.

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Hey - at least you are rational enough to have that sense of self - to be your age and realize you don't know that much - you are further ahead than most people your age.

For me, all I know is that I know nothing. -Socrates

[–]spillpop 1 point2 points ago

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[–]GalacticUnicorn 1 point2 points ago

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22 year old here. Still living at home, saving up for a new car, working as a retail bitch, and I just had a biopsy to find out whether or not I have cancer.

I don't know what the fuck I'm doing, but goddamn it, I am doing my best to do it. And that's all you can do. Ever.

[–]gladeflower 1 point2 points ago

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i know what I am doing. But then, I dont do much. BUT I AM IN CONTROL >:O

[–]theysayirock 1 point2 points ago

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It never really changes. I'm almost 30 and I still feel like that from time to time. I've just gotten better at faking it.

[–]FuzzyMcBitty 1 point2 points ago

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It's ok. By the time you're 30 you'll realize that no one else does either.

[–]gmkirk13 1 point2 points ago

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My life be like uu ah

[–]lefuuu 1 point2 points ago

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Entering the world of 20's in a month. What should I pack, except for the tent and the Bear Grylls handbook?

[–]Cazzu 1 point2 points ago

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I'm in my late 20's and i still have no clue what I'm doing, but i got better at acting like i know.

[–]yhelothere 1 point2 points ago

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[–]sharkattack85 1 point2 points ago

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im 26 and I wake up with that feeling everyday, haha

[–]RadDeals 1 point2 points ago

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NONE OF US KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING.

[–]ScratchBomb 1 point2 points ago

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and you never will...

[–]tar_heeldd 1 point2 points ago

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Mid 30s. Same.

[–]BrokeWhiteGuy 0 points1 point ago

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I lol'd

[–]AlbertFlasher 0 points1 point ago

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Everyday my friend.

[–]de_fa 0 points1 point ago

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I'm 18 and i see where things are heading . Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck.

[–]evadestruction 0 points1 point ago

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i feel the same way in my early 30's, i wonder if i'll ever get it

[–]mcr16 0 points1 point ago

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this is an exact depiction of the mindstate im in, in life

[–]IWasADifferentMeThen 0 points1 point ago

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I feel the same way in my early 30s (and that I missed my chance to ever find out sometime in my mid 20s).

[–]Im_The_Table 0 points1 point ago

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This picture never fails to make me laugh

[–]ComoImports 0 points1 point ago

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Hello this is science dog

[–]loveandpolitics 0 points1 point ago

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Funny. This is how I feel about being in my late twenties.

[–]copperpoint 0 points1 point ago

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Get used to it. It doesn't go away.

[–]chemical_imbalance 0 points1 point ago

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late twenties here. same story.

[–]zafuinthebigtop 0 points1 point ago

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That's how I feel in my early 30's. Nothing changes.

[–]Lord_Polzan 0 points1 point ago

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Haha, this is how I feel! Mind you, i'm a trainee science teacher...

[–]AceySnakes 0 points1 point ago

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Wait until your late 20's and you still don't. I just sorta gave up and kinda just do everything.

[–]ohpuic 0 points1 point ago

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I'm in late 20s, finishing up school, getting married, and I still don't know what I'm doing. I guess its a feeling that stays with us.

[–]PotataChipz 0 points1 point ago

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My solution to this is google.

"what is business casual"
"how to void a check"
"can I buy stamps at the grocery store"
"how to cook good steak on the stove"
"how to file taxes"
"average renters insurance payment"

Google sees all my dirty ignorance, but I feel pretty together otherwise.

[–]Buttery_LLAMA 0 points1 point ago

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I'm in my late twenties, the feeling doesn't go away.

[–]jeremybentham0607 0 points1 point ago

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I am at this point right now. I was always a great-excellent student but I just somehow lost motivation/what I really wanted in life. I now find myself not sure where I fit in really. I've had an ill relative which has both given me time while looking after them some time to consider some things but also a feeling of being of few options because I'm stuck at home in a very small town and am far away from all my friends which makes me feel more like I'm pretty isolated in feeling stuck or in limbo. I can only take comfort in the fct that it is the same for a lot of people like me who have graduated and in their hometowns all over they are feeling exactly the same.

[–]moistmoistrevolution 0 points1 point ago

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In your late 20's: I have no idea WHY I am doing this.

[–]kojopolis 0 points1 point ago

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i hate how nobody tells you this when your a kid, when your a kid it looks like the grown ups have everything figured out..

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point ago

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This is the feeling I get looking back at undergraduate chemists.

[–]bobdolebananaz 0 points1 point ago

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just by realizing this you are big steps ahead of where I was in my early 20's.

[–]shlomo_baggins 0 points1 point ago

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You're doing it right then.

[–]wavefunction84 0 points1 point ago

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This applies to people in their late 20s as well.

[–]codyhorne 0 points1 point ago

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I've always felt this way... wait, where am I

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point ago

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This is powerful stuff man.

[–]anon-e-mouse23 0 points1 point ago

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I'm 43 and still have no idea what I'm doing. I want to make a career change and have no idea how I am going to make it happen.

[–]pilzn3r 0 points1 point ago

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Glad I'm not the only one.

[–]Avinin 0 points1 point ago

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Yup! 22! No fucking idea what im doing.

Good knowing im not the only one without a clue.

[–]dinosaur_jr 0 points1 point ago

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Move to nearest big city. Get job. Have fun.

[–]dumpsztrbaby 0 points1 point ago

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yep

[–]notbookies 0 points1 point ago

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Reading about so many people not having any idea what they're doing makes me feel better.

[–]Xorophobia 0 points1 point ago

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So true. This responsibility shit sucks when you still feel like a teenager but your expected to be an adult.

[–]mystikarts 0 points1 point ago

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your doing it wrong. In my early twenties I knew everything. Now that I'm in my thir.... wtf is that banana over there for.... I have a.d.d.... :(

[–]gargamelol 0 points1 point ago

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solidarity man! i am a confused youth! i am a misguided post-adolescent! what the fuck am i supposed to do with myself?

I just started a new job in a very corporate environment which means I'll have to dry clean my shirts/pants. WHAT THE FUCK?! Shit is overwhelming!

[–]caturdaze 0 points1 point ago

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At least you're wearing safety goggles

[–]msharma28 0 points1 point ago

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im 20 and have never been more confused about life

[–]audiofreedom 0 points1 point ago

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Well damn...this is a depressing thread....

[–]Boulderkock 0 points1 point ago

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I'm still looking for my definite chief aim in life, I feel like I'm drifting in to particular direction right now. Once I sit down and come to terms with myself, figure out wtf i want and why at the deepest level, I believe my life will take a turn for the better. I'm 21 now.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point ago

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getting older won't change a thing....

[–]Is_this_thing_on 0 points1 point ago

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"I have no idea what I'm doing" is one of the first things I told my wife. I'm now 28 and divorced. Holla!

[–]RycePooding 0 points1 point ago

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I'm in my early twenties. I don't know anything about life... does it get better. OH GOD DOES IT GET BETTER?!

[–]JustToUpGoat 0 points1 point ago

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That's pretty much how I feel in my early 30s. Maybe replace the chemistry set with legos. Still no clue.

[–]Lukov 0 points1 point ago

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Its pretty much the same in your late 20s!

[–]Althonse 0 points1 point ago

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Every day as an undergrad in science.