You never saw the point in working at a strip club? Some people might enjoy making money that way. Well if the whole "if you're in a relationship, no other girl should matter" thing confuses you, at least clear up who's "saying" it. Is it the stripper being confident in still performing even around people who are clearly in relationships? Is it the person invited to the club and realizing that although their SO might be looking at strippers, it doesn't mean that they would leave in favor of a stripper? Is it the person who brought their SO to the club being comfortable and confident enough in their perception of the relationship to invite their SO without fear they might act jealous or get upset? Well, I've been to a strip club with my gf (it was part of a separate celebration we both were invited to), and she was super psyched about the idea when it was first suggested, so to answer "why would you take your gf?" She really wanted to go, so there was no reason to tell her she couldn't/shouldn't. Your sister wanted to share a job opportunity/unique experience with you, and I can see why you turned it down, but we are all ACTUAL DANCERS. If you've been trained in certain styles, that takes a different set of less belittling words. Also, in the specific situation where a man, with a female SO, is in a club where you would happen to work as a stripper and not in any other position, that man may want you, right then, physically more than his gf cause her breasts aren't as likely to be exposed. So, why would you want to create a feeling of insecurity in a female SO? Well, chances are that no one who's half decent would do that on purpose, but if you're a half-observant human, you'll probably be able to read the gf's reactions to soliciting business from the guy. If she gets rustled, there are more dudes with more cash. Attention making you feel sick is pretty common and I get why that would be a major deterrent to becoming a stripper. What sorts of drugs is your sister dependent on? Does she still get any work? Not just as a stripper, but is she supporting herself? Or are you saying that because she's a drug dependent fucked up mess, she thought it was reasonable to be a stripper? (I guess you never REALLY said she was a stripper, just that she worked in a club, but I'm running off of the next line) Or are you saying that being a stripper NEEDS an excuse LIKE being drug dependent? This seems like an unnecessarily negative way to characterize a job choice.

I just think it's interesting how many negative words you're using here and how judgmental your comment reads, so I'm asking questions to double check if you leaving the planet would be a loss.