I understand that feeling. It's really difficult to say. I get irritated over women complaining about gender discrimination over the tiniest thing, then they get pissed off when a guy doesn't bend over backwards for them. And a woman can slap a man all day (some women can slap pretty hard, but it's more of the stigma of being slapped that hurts) and it's "oh, he's just a man, he probably deserved it and can handle it." A man does ANYTHING to a woman ONCE and it's "CALL THE POLICE IT'S DOMESTIC ABUSE." That being said, it isn't a perfect world and women are generally a lot more fragile than men, so I don't think it is every tolerable to assault a woman. Though what if a man is defending himself from an onslaught from a woman who genuinely is trying and succeeding in hurting him? Once he hits her, no matter what she's done to him, she'll be the victim and he'll serve the time. It really is a slippery slope. All I want is for women to either to stop being hypocrites about it or accept that men and women aren't equal (not in VALUE, not saying that men are better, but that we are better suited for different things). /rant