I am a conservative Christian but I don't oppress non-believers, because as a Christian I'm not supposed to judge anyone. "Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven." - Luke 6:37

And, as a liberal atheist, I thank you for that. But you're in the minority I'm afraid.

Most conservative Christians have absolutely no trouble judging people.

or Atheists take things the wrong way and start calling Christians haters, when they are just trying to love.

This does happen, co a certain extent. I'll get visits from the local Jehovah's Witnesses who really want to save my soul. Or someone will find out that I'm an atheist and decide that they need to convert me.

I guess I understand that, from their point of view, they're being helpful. Like saving a drowning man or something like that. But from my standpoint it's more like they're trying to convince me to drink the koolaid.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not opposed to theological discussion. And I can accept the possibility that I could be wrong. But that doesn't mean that I want to listen to some guy recite scripture or wave a Lighthouse pamphlet at me for a couple hours.

Just as it would be rude for me to stop by some random person's house and aggressively try to convince them that Horns is better than Twilight, it's rude for religious folks to stop by and try to convince me to adopt their religion. No matter how good their intentions are.

How is it I keep hearing atheists getting attacked for not believing in a God

For the most part, it isn't an active attack. It's more simply living in a hostile environment.

We've had politicians declare that atheists shouldn't be considered citizens. We're told that we can't marry who we want to, or have sex the way we want to, because it goes against somebody else's morality. We're forced to use legal tender that claims we trust god. We're pressured to pledge allegiance to a nation "under god". We've got state-sponsored displays of the 10 commandments or nativity scenes. We've got local laws that prohibit the sale of alcohol on certain days because they're considered holy by a specific religion. We've got various local governments trying to pass laws to enforce certain religious values and beliefs. We've got school boards trying damn hard to throw out real science, and replace it with their favorite creation myths. We've got government programs and policies being funded (or not) based on a specific religious viewpoint.