I do get your point, and I've met the kind of people you talk about who take offense at every little thing. They're the people who seem to think the world owes them something because of their injury or disability, and try to make everyone's life miserable too. Those people are often tragically stuck in a negative spiral. Most in the disabled community tend to shun them (if they haven't already isolated themselves, which is most likely). This is a common theme among us, and it's very sad when it happens. I can only speak for the communities I've been a part of, but I've moved around the country a lot, and every community has one or two like that. The rest of us want to kick them in the ass and tell them to move on with their life (and yes, we talk about it often, because some of you AB's like to stereotype us all with that same attitude).

Yeah, we call you non-disabled people "AB's" (Able Bodies). Can you laugh with us at that?

NO one should ever be deprived of laughter when something funny comes up. It's all about equal opportunity. Are we humans or not? Are we part of your community or not? If so, then fucking treat us like humans and laugh with us at shit that's funny. Most of us have perfectly normal brains stuck in broken bodies, and all humans crave acceptance in society. If society doesn't laugh with me when something funny happens (like the whole new meaning dog shit has for me now, for example), how accepted do you think that makes me feel?

Shortly after I came home from months of rehabilitation, I on my porch playing with my kids. My son was spinning my wheelchair in circles, and accidentally tipped me over. My first response was to lay there and laugh, but as I began to do so, my legs hit me in square the face, and my first thought was, Now THAT'S funny. If you can't laugh at that, then you're missing the point about what it is to be a normal, healthy human being. When people laugh at stupid things that happen to me because of my chair, I know they're laughing because the situation is funny (I'm usually laughing too). If they don't laugh, frankly, I feel horrible and awkward. So by not laughing, you're probably hurting my feelings more.

As for me making fun of God, I generally only resort to that when religion is thrown in my face, and the ones throwing it simply refuse to address my retorts.