I'll help you. The key to a good/safe holiday gift is one that comes in a variety pack/gift set. If you have an Ulta or Sephora in your area, get a gift set of something that might suit her. They have holiday sets of nail polishes, eye sets, lip glosses, perfume, etc. They vary in all price ranges. Victoria Secret also has really amazing perfume gift sets. Women love these! But make sure the set matches something she is already into. If she has a ton of old lip glosses lying around, she would probably love a new set. There's also a little slide of heaven called Lush. They are found in some Macy's if you don't have a stand alone store near you. They have gift sets of specialty bath items. My husband loves when I use these and I secretly know he uses them in the shower, too. He can't fool me. Bath and Body Works is also safe. Between candles and lotions and sprays.. you can't go wrong. B&BW will also trade in their products for other scents no questions asked so if you got a scent she doesn't love she can exchange guilt-free. Gift sets can be bad or cheesy. But if they contain a variety of high quality brand name products at a good price, it's a win for both of you. Fail-proof gift is a picture of you two in a nice frame. Kohl's and Michael's always have sales on nice frames. Go home and send a photo that fits the frame to an 1 hour photo place. (CVS, Walgreens, Rite-Aid, Costco, etc.) Hide a cute note behind the picture so years from now she'll discover it and you'll be rewarded now and later. ;) I, of course, am covering the last minute gifts for the girly women in your life.. If you're dating a nerdy girl you should already know what she wants. Good luck men!