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A place for introverts to gather and chat. Or not. We can just be quiet and withdrawn if we want.


Ten Myths About Introverts, by Carl King


Am I an introvert, or just shy?

See what personality type fits you best.

A Jung personality test can help you if you're unsure.

The power of introverts - Susan Cain at TED.


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[–]lexvegas 3 points4 points ago

[–]thelurchguy 17 points18 points ago

How many more times is this going to posted?

[–]tko 18 points19 points ago

Let me think about it...

[–]SkeeverTail 0 points1 point ago

I've seen this posted here twice since I subscribed a couple months ago. Interestingly, both times it was x/posted from r/funny.

[–]extraneouspanthers 22 points23 points ago

This is most everyone in the world. Not just introverts. Come on.

[–]SQLwitchINFP 1 point2 points ago

Actually, I think for extraverts you want to swap the captions ;->

[–]mirshe 12 points13 points ago

Actually, I know many extroverts who happen to be highly intelligent people, they just prefer to think out loud.

[–]SQLwitchINFP 3 points4 points ago

The original pic isn't a balanced fair description, either. It's a joke.

I know lots of smart extraverts, but even the smartest still (imnsho) talk more than they think.

And I am extremely chatty, myself, and not by introvert standards. But I'm an introverted feeling type.

[–]laivindil 0 points1 point ago

I know lots of smart extraverts, but even the smartest still (imnsho) talk more than they think.

Not sure that's possible... but ok.

[–]enigmamonkey 0 points1 point ago

I read that as a way of saying "talking without thinking first," with emphasis on talkativeness.

[–]LightzephyrxINTP[S] -2 points-1 points ago

I know, I know. I feel like it applies more to myself as an introvert than to extroverts.

[–]deja-vu-comment 14 points15 points ago

Keep this DAE shit on facebook

- mindblastuh

[–]SOPA_NOkeep2mySelf | INTP 0 points1 point ago

This is my favorite of yours.

[–]Dr_Godzilla 2 points3 points ago

I think this is true of almost everyone though.

[–]Man_Suit_WearerINTP 4 points5 points ago

Honestly this has little to do with introvertism. Introversion doesn't mean quiet or shy, it means if you're in a social situation, afterwards you feel drained. It has little to do with how much you think and how much you say. And like extraneouspanthers said pretty much everyone is like this, introvert or extrovert.

[–]squelchbakerINFJ 9 points10 points ago

It has little to do with how much you think and how much you say.

I beg to differ.

Yes, introversion/extroversion has to do with your energy in social situations - but it's not the only indicator. Another of the indications of introversion/extroversion involves the location of your processing: i.e., an introvert is more likely to process internally, an extrovert is more likely to process externally.

[–]ilikefruitydrinks 6 points7 points ago

In a study group one can easily spot the introverts and the extroverts. Extroverts tend to think out aloud, and discuss their train of thought with the others. Introverts sits quietly and thinks.

Typically, extroverts tend to get irritated because they feel that introverts don't contribute, and introverts get irritated because they feel they get interrupted.

[–]Man_Suit_WearerINTP 0 points1 point ago

Very true. While I was typing it I knew I was missing something, and that I wasn't giving a very clear gist of introversion. Thank you for pointing that out.

[–]LightzephyrxINTP[S] 0 points1 point ago

Guess it should say "My introverted way".

I am an introvert; I know what it means to be one.

Edit:To not be a dick.

[–]SovereignPhobiaINTP 0 points1 point ago

Not to be rude, but he wasn't really lecturing. He was more pointing out a mislabel and reinforcing it.

Besides, start speaking your mind. You might gain something from it.

[–]LightzephyrxINTP[S] 1 point2 points ago

Sorry, been a rough day. Edited.

I speak my mind more than most would like to hear, just not in a group setting. Individually, I have a hard time shutting up.

[–]George_BurdellINTJ 1 point2 points ago

This accurately describes LSD.

[–]TPMWandrew 0 points1 point ago

Well, they did give him a thought bubble line on the right, not a speech line.

[–]IzminkoESTJ -1 points0 points ago

It's not limited to introverts.

[–]ThatGuyWithTheSwords -3 points-2 points ago

So true...

[–]AcuraVIP 0 points1 point ago

I agree with this a little bit, but i honestly don't find it funny at all

edit: it actually sucks quite a bit