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Introduction /r/NoFap is a venue for Redditors, male or female, to openly discuss the many tangible benefits of NOT masturbating for a period of time. Whether your goal is to casually participate in a NoFap week or monthly challenge as a test of self control, or if fapping has become an addictive problem in your life and you want to quit for a longer period of time, you will find a home and friends here.

For new visitors please view the Your Brain On Porn presentation for a semi-scientific look at why we are quitting; however, NoFappers choose to quit for a variety of different reasons.

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Basic Rules

You will treat other Fapstronauts with respect. No name calling, no insults, and no degrading comments for either male or females. In addition to this, no posting pornographic images, links, or text. Anyone who disregards these rules may find themselves promptly banned.

Any thread stating "For every up vote I will do X" or any thread referencing a NSFW post on reddit will be removed. All details, descriptions, stories, experiences, etc about your sex life should be censored via NSFW text as described below. This is important because even small amounts of arousing text may cause some fapstronauts distress.

NSFW Text Mark any NSFW text with the following code:

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NoFap Jargon Explained

Fapping: The male act of masturbation

Schlicking: The female act of masturbation

Edging: Masturbating without orgasm

Fapstronaut: A member of r/NoFap

NSFW: Not Safe For Work

NSFL: Not Safe For LIFE

PMO: Porn/Masturbation/Orgasm

PVO: Porn/Vibrator/Orgasm

ED: Erectile dysfunction

PE: Premature ejaculation

PIV: Penis in Vagina

YMMV: Your Mileage May Vary

Blue Petal: Female equivalent of blue balls

Disclaimer

Fapstronauts partake in the ultimate challenge at their own risk and understand that NoFap is largely pseudoscience with very little formal research available on the subject. NoFap is NOT a panacea and individual results will vary. Please do not look to fapstinence to cure all your social and physical ills. If you have other problems that have nothing to do with your sexual habits, they're still going to be there when you're done with a NoFap challenge.

If you have a physical or mental health concern, talk to a medical professional before partaking in a NoFap challenge. If masturbation or sex is a debilitating addiction for you please contact a medical professional and/or attend SAA meetings as these are probably preferable to an internet-based solution. If you are feeling depressed and/or are having suicidal thoughts, seek help immediately. Check out r/SuicideWatch or contact a hotline.

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[–]aTornado11 days 38 points39 points ago

No. I am sitting there, but I am no longer fapping!

[–]Boerr109 days 15 points16 points ago

Me too. So, before we had two activities(Sitting and fapping), now we have just one(Sitting) - more boring.

Just kidding, my life has improved in many ways after i stopped fapping.

[–]babyrhino9 days 2 points3 points ago

agreed

[–]AKnightAlone24 days 2 points3 points ago

Ahem... Sitting here(at a computer) and not masturbating means no more porn sprees that result in, err... long amounts of time being wasted. That means tons of stuff to do and learn via intrawebz for Spiderbroman.

[–]Chaings 0 points1 point ago

Whew, good save.

[–]Joseph1na67 days[S] 2 points3 points ago

Good! Hopefully we'll all get there... and maybe even away from there

[–]JakalDX 9 points10 points ago

Meh, the world's overrated. I want to move on to the next thing.

[–]UngratefulPeon 4 points5 points ago

You aren't prepared for the next thing

[–]spirited132 days 5 points6 points ago

That's why we aren't dead

[–]scdozer435 7 points8 points ago

This got deep really fast.

[–]TheDanSandwich3 days 7 points8 points ago

That's what she said.

[–]nalydtnuc 1 point2 points ago

dang it just got balls deep.

[–]JakalDX 1 point2 points ago

On the contrary.

[–]Befall14 days 13 points14 points ago

Repost of #1 all-time NoFap post? Meh, good for the newbies I guess.

[–]Oxilili98 days 5 points6 points ago

Masturbating is free.

/thread

[–]SaturatedSalt 0 points1 point ago

So is premature ejaculation! ;)

[–]Aieaieouille21 days 0 points1 point ago

Why it always works ? :D

Nice one anyway.

[–]12OCT1210 days 0 points1 point ago

I think I must look at this each morning to avoid a relapse .. thanks bro..

[–]sosuave121 day 0 points1 point ago

DAMN IT!!!

[–]Drunkinskater2 days 0 points1 point ago

HAHA, SO GOOD!

[–]UngratefulPeon 0 points1 point ago

That kinda hit home

[–]Cdiddles 0 points1 point ago

Well I wouldn't go as far as ban masturbation, but we would all benefit from restricting our masturbations habits. *I can't say this with a straight face

[–]ChristianAllen95 0 points1 point ago

That one hit too close to home

[–]kindaAnonymous1 day 0 points1 point ago

So glad I saw this just now!

[–]Harddaysnight1990 0 points1 point ago

Wong. I'm laying here, fighting off a flu. And I reddit when I'm sick. It makes me feel better.

[–]Flynn5889 days -1 points0 points ago

No, I'm just sitting.

Because I'm 12, not fapping, and don't have any other sexual activities to partake in.

Fuck me.

[–]Kardlonoc 0 points1 point ago

Doesn't masturbating technically fall under all of those?

[–]icandoit8817 days 0 points1 point ago

Adrenaline rush can be induced from any such adventurous acts not just sitting & fapping. Although I've been successful in putting off fapping for the past 2 weeks, I'm a bit bored just to sit in-front of it & not do smtg stimulating. Have to go on a weekend trip to avoid falling into this trap again.

[–]ineedateam1 1 point2 points ago

Oh my god... i was fapping as i read this.... i have a problem....oh my god

[–]NoAttentionAtWrk23 days 0 points1 point ago

I read this and i fapped.... i have a real problem

[–]ineedateam1 0 points1 point ago

I didnt even know i was fapping....it was out of pure boredum and i know that i do it atleast 9 times a day

[–]NoAttentionAtWrk23 days 0 points1 point ago

O_o

okay... i thought we were just joking about this!

Are you telling me that you are in /r/nofap and yet you are fapping 9 times a day ? i think you are missing the main point here

[–]ineedateam1 0 points1 point ago

im subed but i cant get past 2 days been trying for almost 2 months now

[–]NoAttentionAtWrk23 days 2 points3 points ago

if you are doing something and failing over and over again, maybe you should try making some changing to your approach.

Wear pants around the house and wear a tight belt at all times (except while sleeping) so that your hand does not reach for your penis on its own.

stop thinking about how many days has it been or thinking that you have given it up for ever. instead, just get through today. everyday. stop counting sometimes helps cos then you are not thinking how long has it been since the last time.

need more tips ?

[–]ryanlevi9312 days 0 points1 point ago

hey you fixed the original title.

[–]Zottelkappe3 days 0 points1 point ago

I am trying to fill my time with something else than gaming/surfing , but everything is so expensive I am just a poor student :(

I want to learn how to fly with a hangglider, but a freakin' poor.

[–]100pic5 days 1 point2 points ago

If anyone is brave enough, I engaged my worlds worst photoshop skills to turn this into a desktop wallpaper.

http://i.imgur.com/HAW1s.jpg

[–]doubledouble21 day 0 points1 point ago

Not bad.

[–]EternalPeasant 0 points1 point ago

i just saw this and was about to post it here

[–]Joseph1na67 days[S] 1 point2 points ago

I was lucky to catch it as soon as the other person posted it

[–]DrAgonit31 day 0 points1 point ago

Absolutely hilarious. :D

[–]NewPowerfulMe 0 points1 point ago

HAHAHA thankyou I laughed so much at this!