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Are you still a virgin? (i.imgur.com)

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[–]jaimesIV 334 points335 points ago

That horrible moment when your friends are talking about their ''experiences'' and you just hope to god they don't ask you anything.

[–]lespaul134 233 points234 points ago

It's like..a bag of sand

[–]Fishstixxx16 63 points64 points ago

Is it true that if you don't use it, you lose it?

[–]FlyingPasta 20 points21 points ago

Depends, are we still talking about boobs?

[–]Fishstixxx16 34 points35 points ago

I hope you got a big trunk, I'm gonna put my bike in it.

[–]Gamer_ely 10 points11 points ago

the first time I got my hand on one.... that was all I could think of

[–]KamFox 0 points1 point ago

No, tell them "It's like first time I was in one"... long story short it did not work for me.

[–]TerryArchi 57 points58 points ago

Haha yeah...friends...

[–]cojafoji 14 points15 points ago

He said as I'm sitting here on a Wednesday night, drinking beer trying to forget the fact that life sucks and all of my friends have moved away.

I guess it's time for bed. My pillow never leaves me.

[–]davesfakeaccount 2 points3 points ago

That's because your pillow is 10% you

[–]cojafoji 1 point2 points ago

O.O

[–]Wugger 1 point2 points ago

Its worse when they aren't even your friends.

[–]lunchbox_hoagie 1 point2 points ago

That moment you realize you actually don't like the people you hang around all that much?

[–]PitFireZ 39 points40 points ago

That amazing moment when your friends are talking about having to take care of their kids and you just want to go back to playing video games.

[–]El_Dorado 85 points86 points ago

God, I hate the following "How" and "Why" questions after I point out my "lack" of experience. It just didn't happen dude, let it go, I already did.

[–]Cristal1337 44 points45 points ago

Some years ago, two girls, who were really good friends of mine, asked those "how" and "why" questions. They just didn't understand why I wouldn't want sex; saying things like: "There isn't anything wrong with you, or is there?"

I talked about "my high standards" just because I couldn't give them a proper answer. They told me to lower them, that love isn't about beauty and that sex is fun. Only recently I am starting to understand what I seek and why it has never worked for me.

Truth is, there is something wrong with me. However, I never made a big deal about it. It never hurt my ego or made me shy. My physical disability, however, has effected me on a different level. While I am potent, I never learned to become tactile with anyone. If anything, I learned that people would rather not touch me; not because I might be ugly, but because I look so fragile. Basically, I was raised not to hug. Even if I do my best to overcome that bad feeling of initiating a hug, I notice how most people shy away...naturally, a real deal breaker to me.

So if anyone would ask me "how" and "why", I'd tell them that I haven't met a single person who truly accepted my disability.

PS. Sorry for this depressing comment.

[–]KingSloth 13 points14 points ago

Some years ago, two girls, who were really good friends of mine

For a moment, I thought this post was going in a totally different direction...

[–]BlindStark 8 points9 points ago

;_;

[–]kosuth 0 points1 point ago

Damn onions... Who's cutting them in here?

ninja edit: grammar

[–]Knale 16 points17 points ago

I'll tell anyone. I don't care. People are almost universally surprised, because I'm just a decent looking normal dude who hasn't had it happen yet. I figure it's only a big deal if I make it one. Those questions are the worst though, and why I hate truth or dare style games. "What's your wildest sex experience?"

"Uhh.....haven't...had it....at all"

"No way? REALLY? WHY? DUDE, GO HAVE SEX"

"Oh thanks, didn't realize it was that simple..."

[–]nickdude77 12 points13 points ago

"Really?! Why?"

"I don't know, maybe nobody really found me attractive. And plus i'm not very confident."

"Awww... I think you're attractive"

"Thanks"

Commence awkward silence

THIS IS WHY I CAN'T INTO PEOPLE.

[–]Knale 2 points3 points ago

Been there. And then that small horribly annoying voice in your head says "maybe this is one of those times she'll just offer?...."

[–]kablamy 2 points3 points ago

Bro, that's when you take the opportunity to tell her that you think she's attractive as well. Escalate from there.

[–]nickdude77 1 point2 points ago

In the moment, that's either wordy or weird.

"You too"

Sounds odd

"Thanks! I think you're really attractive too"

Is wordy and could sound strange.

[–]thehughjackman 18 points19 points ago

you didn't

*puts on glasses *

hit gold?

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    [–]lowdownlow 19 points20 points ago

    I've never understood why people are so afraid of letting other people know they are virgins. I did not lose my virginity until I was 24 and it was really forced upon me. Prior to this, I was very open about the fact that I was a virgin. Never had a problem.

    [–]bjt23 15 points16 points ago

    Theres actually a word for forced sex... and that totally blows.

    [–]lowdownlow 6 points7 points ago

    Haha, didn't make the connection.. I'm a dude, lots of peer pressure and the girl really wanted it so she was being really aggressive. I kinda just gave in.

    [–]carpeDeezNuts 7 points8 points ago

    That sounds horrific!

    [–]lowdownlow 5 points6 points ago

    It was interesting. She was really enthusiastic, but I didn't perform too well for obvious reasons. I'd boink her again if I had a phone number or name.

    [–]loegare 4 points5 points ago

    upvote for using boink in a sentence!

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      [–]noarmedbandit 11 points12 points ago

      im 25, i just lost it last month

      [–]d1al96 13 points14 points ago

      im a 16 year old male who is a virgin with alot of friends who arent i have no problem saying shit like "damn i wish i knew what sex/bjs/etc was/were like" whenever they start talking about it but i can laugh at myself

      also on a side note this chick wanted to have sex (we'd been dating for like a month) and i said no because i didn't feel ready.

      [–]DesireMyFire 7 points8 points ago

      Good for you. I was a virgin until my wedding night. Went 25 years. Not due to religion or lack of a girl, just personal morals.

      [–]Cutsprocket 6 points7 points ago

      are you still married?, Sexual compatibility is kind of a big deal

      [–]DesireMyFire 9 points10 points ago

      Sex isn't good automatically. It takes practice. If you're physically and emotionally attracted to each other then you will enjoy getting better intimately with your partner. Communication is key. I like that. I don't like that.... ya know?

      Yes, I'm still married 8 years later with two kids.

      [–]Cutsprocket 3 points4 points ago

      that's awesome, I'm glad it worked out for both of you.

      [–]lowdownlow 3 points4 points ago

      Good on you. It's the reason I had waited so long myself. Really confirms my point that unless your friends are a bunch of dicks, I don't understand why this cliche exists.

      [–]SolidDexter 4 points5 points ago

      Yes, reddit. Downvote him. Show how accepting and thoughtful of a community we are.

      [–]ForeverAloneAlone 1 point2 points ago

      Big deal, 16 years old you should be a virgin. Otherwise it's rape.

      [–]FreedomCow 2 points3 points ago

      because virgin-shaming exists, sadly.

      [–]DuckingTape 0 points1 point ago

      male or female? That makes a big difference...

      [–]lowdownlow 0 points1 point ago

      Male.

      [–]ForeverAloneAlone 0 points1 point ago

      Because they make fun of you, if you're a guy.

      [–]lowdownlow 0 points1 point ago

      I am a guy.

      [–]skorpiolt 31 points32 points ago

      It's awesome how lying only makes it worse

      [–]dreamer_of_days 23 points24 points ago

      sometimes people mention something pertaining to relationships then they turn to me and ask "you know what I mean" and im like "yea.. totally" then quickly change the subject.

      [–]DISREPUTABLE 9 points10 points ago

      You dudes are awesome for being so young! I am reminded of youthful shit like this you totally forget about when you get older. I was terrified back in the day of this exact shit. Now totally laughable.

      [–]klsi832 4 points5 points ago

      Or they're talking about things you know nothing about, and you wish they would stick to subjects that start with 'V' because of Penn.

      [–]Nimbunaut 1 point2 points ago

      Vesuvius? Vietnam? Vaaaas deferens?

      Oh dang it, they're talking about a Korean film...

      [–]ducksizedhorses 5 points6 points ago

      She'd be like, "Me so horny, me love you long time."

      [–]modderextreme 5 points6 points ago

      I don't get why anyone really cares. I am a 31 year old virgin and if anyone asks I tell them straight into their face. If they don't like it, they can go fuck themselves. Does someone having sex contribute or benefit anyone? No, it does not. It's just some stupid thing people use to feel superior to others.

      Reading the comments just proves my point. So much judgement based on the fact of not having sex. Who other than myself should care?

      [–]and_of_four 37 points38 points ago

      Sex is not a stupid thing that people do to feel superior to others. I don't feel superior to someone because they haven't had sex. Do you feel inferior to people who have had sex? You shouldn't. People shouldn't judge you because you're a virgin, but you also shouldn't judge people who have had sex.

      [–]modderextreme 0 points1 point ago

      It is exactly a stupid thing people do to feel superior to others. Why do you think everyone is made fun of for being a virgin?

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        [–]dipset33 3 points4 points ago

        What's life as a wizard like? Anything I should know before becoming one?

        [–]Hempage 7 points8 points ago

        Yeah... but for most people, it's a lot of fun. At least I find it to be pretty fun. But also a lot of work :/

        [–]speedstix 5 points6 points ago

        I'm curious. Are you asexual? I've recently listened to a podcast about people who have no sexual interest at all.

        [–]JavaOrlando 0 points1 point ago

        Stuff You Should Know!

        [–]speedstix 2 points3 points ago

        thats the one. Put's me to sleep every night

        [–]bjt23 2 points3 points ago

        Sounds like you've been hanging around sucky people. Most people find it fun. People that brag and use sex to put you down... Well clearly their lives are not as awesome as they claim if they feel the need to put you down to elevate themselves. I was a late bloomer and really only one guy ever gave me shit about it, he had problems of his own though.

        [–]horse_drowner2 -1 points0 points ago

        Hey man I'm all for not judging someone who is a virgin but your approach on it is pretty fucked up.

        [–]jcad1947 0 points1 point ago

        Read your other posts, and sorry for people's ignorance. Human connections are easy for them (it comes to them easily) and they should empathize with your situation a little better.

        [–]omgimadeanaccount 1 point2 points ago

        If they don't like it, they can go fuck another person

        ohhhhhhhhhhhhh

        [–]mrDrifter 0 points1 point ago

        Yea sex is stupid, lets start reproducing asexually for now on...

        [–]felderosa 0 points1 point ago

        if you tell them, they'll help you get laid.

        [–]Knale 0 points1 point ago

        5 Fingers while playing king's cup is the fucking worst....

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          [–]Cormorrant 35 points36 points ago

          I am 27 years old. Only slept with one woman. But I am not a virgin.

          I feel like a some body.

          [–]JackassPenguinass 10 points11 points ago

          You are some body.

          [–]Cormorrant 6 points7 points ago

          Yeah...I'm still super beta and I'm gonna die alone most likely.

          [–]dormerXL 12 points13 points ago

          Make sure you make a gif of that and post it on Reddit. You may die alone, but you shouldn't die without upvotes.

          [–]Barzano 2 points3 points ago

          I'm as alpha as can be, and I'm also probably going to die alone, an ego can be pretty debilitating when it comes to relationships.

          Go for the in between man, all you need for love is time, luck, and being ok with getting shot down

          [–]YourGloriousLeader 2 points3 points ago

          I kinda prefer betas.

          [–]gordofrog 2 points3 points ago

          I prefer the finished product, much less glitchy

          [–]Corni33 1 point2 points ago

          still better than alpha

          [–]psub_xero 2 points3 points ago

          Like a sombodee?

          [–]bunnyflop 28 points29 points ago

          Yes. Oh this isn't /r/AskReddit?

          [–]FlyingPasta 11 points12 points ago

          No.

          And yes.

          [–]Ralanost 15 points16 points ago

          Even though i first had sex almost 14 years ago and was married for a time, I haven't had sex in such a long time I might as well be a virgin all over again.

          [–]Satafly 2 points3 points ago

          Dude don't worry, the virginity sequel is much better than the original.

          You have experience in the sequel you see...

          [–]Ralanost 3 points4 points ago

          True enough, but the worst part is that I only really have myself to blame for being fat, lazy and unmotivated. Stuck in a dead end job that doesn't pay shit. I hate to work, but I am sure if I found the right job it would be fine, but I will never be qualified because I disagree with how colleges operate....and this is how I get stuck. Thinking negatively and it just perpetuates itself in a negative spiral. The only positive thing I got going for me is also something I hate. I would be on welfare if it wasn't for my parents helping me out, but who wants to be in their mid thirties unable to afford to live without getting money from your retired parents?

          [–]Robotzen 1 point2 points ago

          I'm stuck in a dead end job too. I enjoy music though, so I'm saving like mad, so I can travel and find a better music scene. Hopefully you can find a passion or something that gives you hope, or at least takes your mind off your job. Everyone around me is so different in terms of age and interests, and it's lonely as fuck.

          [–]Satafly 0 points1 point ago

          Bro...right in the feels

          Seriously though, you sound like you have spiraled into a depressive cycle and this can be medicated. There is more than one type of depression, "clinical depression" is something you live with for life. "Major depression" can result from a build up of stress and/or anxiety, which is what your case sounds like.

          Get a psych test and see if you can get some help man, I was fucking shocked at the difference it gave me.

          [–]smilenowgirl 1 point2 points ago

          D:

          [–]Kevins_famous_chili 62 points63 points ago

          it's ironic cause Joey is a sex king in the show

          [–]bigsz 67 points68 points ago

          "Joe you've had a lot of sex right?" "When today? Some... not a lot."

          [–]Vaoh 10 points11 points ago

          "Joey, your long standing offer to have sex with my wife is much appreciated."

          [–]Squeezymo 9 points10 points ago

          Having sex is like getting a real life upvote.

          [–]Barzano 7 points8 points ago

          I just sexed you via reddit then, I'm sorry

          [–]Squeezymo 5 points6 points ago

          I can see that you're into the Karmasutra

          [–]DarthCharizard 27 points28 points ago

          I'm cool with admitting I'm a virgin, I just don't like how everyone in the world seems to find it incomprehensible that I'm fine with it. I don't feel the need to seek sex out and even if they're right and trying it a few times would change my mind and make me want it, I don't want to want it.

          [–]marrrman 7 points8 points ago

          Me too. I'm 21, never had sex. I don't see why so many people find that mind boggling.

          [–]Sacrefix 15 points16 points ago

          Maybe you don't see why it is mind boggling because you haven't had sex? (Half sarcasm)

          [–]SolidDexter 17 points18 points ago

          Yeah. First time I had sex I was like this is arlight, but not mind blowing. Then I had sex regularly and sometimes it is mind blowing. There's nothing comparable to blowing your load inside a girl. Nothing.

          [–]DarthCharizard 3 points4 points ago

          Yeah, that's what I've heard. My roommate tells me I have to try at least 7 times before I can say it's not really my thing. Apparently it takes some getting used to. I guess I just don't get why I would want to train myself to like it.

          It's like being hungry- if I had never been hungry and didn't need food, I wouldn't force myself to eat for a while when it wasn't enjoyable just to learn the hunger sensation. Sure, I would have access to the apparently pleasurable experience of eating food- and also paying for it, getting grumpy when I don't get it, having to spend time to find or prepare it, running the risk of gaining weight or getting some other condition from it. If I was already happy being a photosynthesizer I doubt I would see any reason to change that just because eating is really enjoyable for some people.

          [–]the_number_2 0 points1 point ago

          That seemed a very laboured metaphor, but I applaud your dedication.

          [–]marrrman 0 points1 point ago

          haha I suppose.

          [–]Knale 2 points3 points ago

          I'll tell anyone. I don't care. People are almost universally surprised, because I'm just a decent looking normal dude who hasn't had it happen yet. I figure it's only a big deal if I make it one.

          [–]ravingia 3 points4 points ago

          I don't really believe you, but if you're telling the truth then it sounds like you have a pretty nice life and way of looking at things.

          [–]sd42 2 points3 points ago

          shrug I agree with him with all but the last part, I'm rather indifferent on whether I want to want it or not. I just see how it affects others, and it doesn't look like something that I want to be a part of chasing. This being said, I am only 19, so I'm sure my views are going to change in the future, but I wouldn't say he was being untruthful at all.

          [–]DarthCharizard 0 points1 point ago

          Lol. You and everyone else in my life, I think. My life is pretty much all about work and soon it will be all about school and hopefully ultimately it will be all about research. I'm not exactly anti-sex and anti-relationship... but I don't want them for their own sake. If by some happenstance I met someone that I became particularly devoted to, I could change my mind. But if it doesn't come along, I don't think I'd lie on my deathbed lamenting that I missed out. It's just not a priority- it's an inconvenience that would have to somehow be super worth it in another area.

          And I know that I could change my mind when I get older. Right now my social needs are being very well met by platonic friends and work colleagues, but as we get older, people pair off and they seem to have less and less time for friendships outside of the little families they're making.

          So even though I've genuinely never felt the urge to go out and find someone to date or have sex with, I can't rule out someday doing it just because I miss having best friends or close family.

          [–]Knale 0 points1 point ago

          I'll tell anyone. I don't care. People are almost universally surprised, because I'm just a decent looking normal dude who hasn't had it happen yet. I figure it's only a big deal if I make it one.

          [–]Sir_Walken 0 points1 point ago

          You're either a liar or a female.

          [–]DarthCharizard 0 points1 point ago

          The latter, lol.

          [–]Walt_Thizzney 6 points7 points ago

          I'm from Virginia. Oh oops.

          [–]listenandsee 7 points8 points ago

          Is this a guy thing? As a female, I have no shame in the fact that I'm a virgin.

          [–]SteveTheDude 33 points34 points ago

          As guys, society tells us that our whole value as humans is dependent on our ability to sex up chicks.

          As a girl, society tells you that your whole value is dependent on your ability to resist our sex attempts.

          It's pretty fucked up.

          [–]listenandsee 1 point2 points ago

          Depressing that society hasn't moved on. Personally, I would think it sweet for a man to not think of sex so casually and do modern, westernized men even consider virginity as an asset anymore? Well, obviously the religious type would, but in general.

          [–]evered 1 point2 points ago

          I hope to find a lady that has an equivalent level of resisting societal norms.

          It's probably easier to find a virgin girl than virgin guy though.

          [–]Sir_Walken 4 points5 points ago

          I disagree.

          [–]crafycassandra 108 points109 points ago

          Am I the only one on Reddit that has had sex?

          [–]koerbchen 74 points75 points ago

          YOU REALLY HAD SEX??

          [–]Neelpos 158 points159 points ago

          AMA

          [–]j9d2 22 points23 points ago

          Come on, crafycassandra... WE NEED THIS.

          [–]Aspiring_Carrot 17 points18 points ago

          It's not just for science this time!

          [–]TypicalTacos 15 points16 points ago

          Maybe just a little bit.

          [–]fire_to_go 5 points6 points ago

          Wink wink, nudge nudge, know what I mean.

          [–]scsk8r831 10 points11 points ago

          Did you swallow?

          [–]Neelpos 14 points15 points ago

          If a man can't enjoy his own nectar, he's not a man.

          [–]d1al96 4 points5 points ago

          you might like this

          [–]SnakeBitLegend 0 points1 point ago

          That was a risky click.

          [–]AwildRatard 99 points100 points ago

          You can find your answer by looking at the gif just one more time

          [–]chasethenoise 4 points5 points ago

          If reddit had been around when I was in high school, I'd be right there with these virgins.

          [–]este_hombre 2 points3 points ago

          Pics or it didn't happen.

          [–]RandomMcEric 1 point2 points ago

          That depends. Do hookers count?

          [–]BobRossNTV 0 points1 point ago

          No. Dumpy.

          [–]kabukistar 1 point2 points ago

          I did a survey about number of sexual partners awhile ago. I think the average was like 4/person.

          [–]BrainInAJar 0 points1 point ago

          It's because Reddit is full of greasy nerds, but the funny thing is as late as greasy nerds are to start having sex, once they do a lot of time they get in to some freaky shit and have a lot of it.

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            [–]zuka_zanamee 5 points6 points ago

            After getting laid nothing about you changes, just means you get to get rid of some social stigma you've been ashamed of for no damn reason. Being ashamed for being a virgin is like being ashamed because you don't have the same xbox achievements as your friends.

            [–]flunkorg 11 points12 points ago

            As someone who's 21 and has been in a relationship for nearly 4 years and still hasn't had sex. This pretty much nails it.

            [–]dsr541 16 points17 points ago

            Dude... you need to get on that.

            [–]flunkorg 10 points11 points ago

            Why? No real reason to rush.

            [–]stormchaser 5 points6 points ago

            What is it even like to be in a relationship and not have sex? Aren't you ever cuddling and then you notice that her boobs are right there?

            [–]Scarbane 5 points6 points ago

            Dem tatas be all pillowy and shit

            [–]CohoCharlie 0 points1 point ago

            What if they're the one wearing the boobs in the relationship?

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              [–]-Tejx- 1 point2 points ago

              Wow...

              Then she leaves you and you realize it was the biggest mistake to not have sex with her.

              [–]SonOfSatan -1 points0 points ago

              Hahaha, sarcasm.... Right?

              [–]FreyWill -1 points0 points ago

              Spoken as someone who has never had sex... Sex makes the world go round. It makes the food sweeter and the roses smell better.

              Not that you would know.

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                [–]Komania 4 points5 points ago

                ...I don't understand how you could be in a 4 year relationship and still be a virgin. I mean even if you chose to save your virginity for marriage or something, it's been 4 years...

                [–]flunkorg -1 points0 points ago

                Its not that where saving it for marriage, its just that neither of us feel ready. We both have are reasons, and its better to just take it slow.

                [–]westmeadow88 6 points7 points ago

                There's taking it slow, and then there's being in a relationship for 4 years without sex. Not judging you or anything, I'm just curious as to the specifics of why you two don't feel ready, since it's clearly not an age thing (being 21).

                [–]Satafly 2 points3 points ago

                I'm guessing either he or her (or both...more realistically both) has been molested as a kid.

                There is literally no other reason I can think to delay sex with someone you know really well, trust very deeply and have a relationship where intimacy is accepted.

                [–]Barzano 2 points3 points ago

                Man, if a girl I was with hadn't had sex with me for years, I would think she's cheating :(

                [–]flunkorg 0 points1 point ago

                What in the fuck? NO! She's scared that it will end our relationship, and I've got some really deep emotional scars that I've got to deal with.(Not molestation related)

                To be frank, I'm actually terrified to move forward as well. It's not something I can just blindly jump into.

                [–]Satafly 4 points5 points ago

                Dude. 4 fucking years? Are you kidding me?

                Have sex. Now. Afterwards you'll be like "huh...wtf was I all freaked out about?" It's nothing. It feels pretty good, you get a workout and then both of you are sexually sated and you can hang out cuddling.

                There's no life-changing moment where you suddenly experience this new level of enlightenment. It is a very normal act akin to eating and sleeping.

                [–]flunkorg 0 points1 point ago

                She's scared that it will end our relationship, and I've got some really deep emotional scars that I've got to deal with.(Not molestation related)

                To be frank, I'm actually terrified to move forward as well. It's not something I can just blindly jump into.

                [–]DevilsSRNG 15 points16 points ago

                I hate it when people ask me this. I have a terrible poker face, so as long as you ask, you're going to know.

                [–]underweartycoon 3 points4 points ago

                It's worse when they don't even have to ask.

                [–]DevilsSRNG 0 points1 point ago

                The night I moved in with my roommate, we were watching a movie, and about half-way through a sex scene, he pauses, looks me dead in the eyes and asks "Are you a virgin?" Really?

                [–]Nimbunaut 5 points6 points ago

                So, have you had sex yet?

                [–]IronOxide42 1 point2 points ago

                I wait until they say "Well? Have you had sex yet or not?" Then, I can truthfully say "Yes," in traditional Redditor fashion.

                [–]DevilsSRNG 0 points1 point ago

                Uhh... Yeah, tones of times...

                [–]Mobster96 4 points5 points ago

                My feels...

                [–]WaffleChef 4 points5 points ago

                Virgin at 19, still dont feel bad about it.

                [–]TheOneHawk 3 points4 points ago

                I'm 26 yo. I guess I'm in the club, but I don't really care anymore. Dated a couple times and plenty of girls tell me I'm attractive, but as soon as they realize I'm not the true douchebag they desire, they're done with nice guys like me. I'm sure I'm not the only guy dealing with this scenario.

                Some girls also ask me why only douchebags go for them, or why they got stuck in shitty, drama-filled relationships too. For me the answer is obvious. Its basically the exact same thing as getting 'the job,' since dating is marketing yourself: If they're not going to give you a chance to prove yourself, then how are they going to know if you were the better choice?

                I'm definitely biased from my experiences, but I've dealt with enough of it to realize the dating scene/culture is very shallow.

                [–]Satafly 1 point2 points ago

                As a guy who used to get called 'one of the nice guys' and doesn't anymore:

                That's what they say to you to be nice. They're thinking "pushover". I have not yet witnessed a girl go out with a guy who I would consider a douchebag unless she, herself, was a douchebag.

                [–]Garganturat 1 point2 points ago

                I never really thought of it that way but I think you're right.
                I'm a pushover in a lot of respects, but it's only because I really don't care enough about all that many things.

                [–]CohoCharlie 2 points3 points ago

                Being nice in of itself will not get you a woman, you need to be confident (or at least act like it).

                [–]TheOneHawk 0 points1 point ago

                See. Here's the thing. I am a confident guy and not a pushover, because I am told so and I know how I act. Being the 'nice guy' is a general term, in my opinion, associated with a stereotype of someone with no confidence and "the push over," which isn't always the case for everyone. Also, I probably sound like I am referring to all men or women in my rant, but mostly just the people I have met in my life. One day, somehow, I'll probably figure it out.

                [–]FluroBlack 6 points7 points ago

                19, still am :3

                [–]mwalters103 7 points8 points ago

                I lost mine at 19. I always thought that sex would make me a different person somehow but it really doesn't change anything. Looking back it's funny how much I was stressed about something that doesn't matter at all. Trust me it'll happen eventually just keep your head up and be confident.

                [–]GFandango 0 points1 point ago

                yeah about keeping the head up...

                [–]FluroBlack 0 points1 point ago

                Well i have this problem of just not wanting to do it with anyone except that perfect person, who i just recently lost before i got my chance. Ive been thinking to myself lately maby its really not all that worth saving for.

                [–]nedvedcrouch 9 points10 points ago

                keep your head up my brotha, itll happen when it happens

                [–]pacifist112 7 points8 points ago

                lost at 20, you're fine... okcupid ;)

                [–]jrgolden42 6 points7 points ago

                21! Hah! Try and beat that high score!

                [–]SometimesY 6 points7 points ago

                22! Do I win anything guys?

                [–]Lobsterpunch 4 points5 points ago

                23! Get in line, buddy!

                [–]davesfakeaccount 8 points9 points ago

                Hah, 34. I'm the winner, get off my lawn you kids!

                [–]fullautophx 13 points14 points ago

                Nope. 41 here. I think I got a chance of winning this.

                [–]the_tall_one 4 points5 points ago

                By winning, you actually lose.

                [–]samissleman17 0 points1 point ago

                Fuck it I can help you with that. (20 m here) (this is probably a joke) (probably)

                [–]cmfhsu 0 points1 point ago

                Steve Carell?

                [–]MoocowR 7 points8 points ago

                Wizzard

                [–]ForeverAloneAlone 0 points1 point ago

                F...! I lost. Only 30.

                [–]jrgolden42 1 point2 points ago

                The No Prize. Also everyone's collective sadness.

                [–]FlowerChild1994 2 points3 points ago

                My idiotic giggling gives it all away.

                [–]hnrqoliv182 2 points3 points ago

                Ah... I miss friends

                [–]WombatAmbassador 1 point2 points ago

                On the one hand, I remember all to well countless of these exact situations, and the anxiety it can cause, and honestly it's understandable. However, now that I'm on the other side of the line, more than anything I'm upset that sex would have ever caused such a rift in me or others. Upset at society, and myself for buying into the idea, and fueling it.

                You have the physical aspect, and this I compare to anything your body yearns for. It's endorphin in the bloodstream and what so much evolution has prepared for you to do. If you don't have sex, you are the first of your bloodline since FOREVER to fail. And yes, it feels good. But so does masturbating with lube. So does eating some goddamned bacon covered bacon. But what, you've never eaten bacon covered bacon? Truth is, I don't think anyone should care, you shouldn't care; it's a surge of happiness that ends almost immediately after it begins [insert premature ejaculation joke here].

                That said, you also have the mental aspect, the emotional aspect. Separate from the physical act, sex in this way is like anything you do to foster a relationship. I wish this is what people actually cared about. What, you've never put your heart and mind towards someone who returned theirs in kind? You've never put your self out there, vulnerable, in the hopes be as close to someone as you possibly can be? What, you let physical boundaries stand in the way of lasting happiness? Oh man, how embarrassing!

                tl;dr: They should actually have made "The 40 Year Old Man Who Has Never Loved"

                [–]nypapaya 2 points3 points ago

                As a 20 year old girl, I'm still a virgin only because I'm afraid of being torn in half. That's pretty much it. First few times just hurts for chicks and I'm such an asshole about pain.

                Worst part: I really do wanna have sex and all, but any time I tell the guy I'm dating that I'm a virgin, they freak out and don't want that kind of responsibility. I will remain a virgin until I get laid, I will get laid when I am no longer a virgin. Vicious cycle.

                [–]kallebumkvist 2 points3 points ago

                erm, you know 'First few times just hurts for chicks' isn't true right? Some women do experience pain but not all, and frankly if you're using foreplay/lube and taking it slowly it shouldn't hurt at all. Maybe you should practice with fingers/ a dildo to reassure yourself that the idea you're going to get 'torn in half' is completely fucking retarded?

                [–]neqailaz 0 points1 point ago

                kallebumkvist has the right idea! The reason a lot of girls experience pain during their first time is that they were nervous, ergo not lubricated enough, thus more friction, and ultimately pain.

                [–]hooizyoo 4 points5 points ago

                God I wish reddit had a minimum age requirement.

                [–]dsr541 12 points13 points ago

                Minimum age requirement wouldn't help. Most of the virgins on reddit are in their mid-20s (As exampled by all the people posting in this thread)

                [–]Imperial_Walker 2 points3 points ago

                That's the point. This person has a fetish for virgins and wants to bang all these lonely redditors but is afraid that some of them might be under age.

                [–]gordofrog 0 points1 point ago

                Ahh, that cunning card-collector

                [–]Love_Caktus 0 points1 point ago

                That feel has been known by my people for many generations.

                [–]ForeverJabroni 2 points3 points ago

                You think the feel is your ally? You merely adopted the feel. I was born in it, molded by it.

                [–]jrgolden42 0 points1 point ago

                I know that feel

                [–]pennismightier 0 points1 point ago

                Fuck me IRL!

                [–]Arkhothep 0 points1 point ago

                I don't understand how this is any better from a 3 and a half men joke

                [–]sexgott 1 point2 points ago

                It isn't, but it gives us an opportunity to share our miserable stories.

                [–]smilenowgirl 0 points1 point ago

                Was talking to a potential date and he said something along the lines of "sex is great," and I replied "I'm sure it is." He promptly ran away.

                [–]badluck_bryan 0 points1 point ago

                Not ashamed to say I am.

                [–]magme89 0 points1 point ago

                I was having sex with a guy once who asked, during sex, whether I was a virgin. I laughed in his face.

                [–]evanserickson 1 point2 points ago

                Most people are virgins by situation, not by choice though.

                [–]GrukfromtheGrok 0 points1 point ago

                It's even worse when you tell them you only slept with one girl. At least when you say that you are a virgin the reply is usually something like "really? for real? Oh, that's cool" But telling them you slept with one girl usually follows with a barrage of questions.

                [–]Diputus 0 points1 point ago

                Rule 53

                [–]shawric 0 points1 point ago

                This thread looks like a job for /r/escorts

                [–]ForeverAloneAlone 0 points1 point ago

                Yep

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